Where would you go!?

Question

I have a small problem, lately i've been fantasizing about leaving my marratime province to go somewhere- anywhere. the way i want to bring it up is end up typing an email up, and "accidently" sending it to my mother. she knows i do ocassionally type long emails to people to just get something that's bugging me out of my mind, but not send them.

My request would be: to leave nova scotia/canada for somewhere between 3 days and a week. one day for shopping, the rest for sightseeing and just enjoy the location. i do consider this slightly selfish of me, seeing as my mother is pretty sick. and her last excuse was, "i want to save up money for christmases until you're 19."

is there a better way to drop the hint? and place suddgestions?

Answer 1

just talk to your mom , dont sneakout

Answer 2

Well, you seem to be 18 from what I am reading. You should act like a "Young Lady" and confront your Mother face-to-face with this hun. It's the right thing to do, so she wont be worried, and it is also the proper thing to do. If you are only going to be gone for that short of a time, You just need to explain to Mom, Look, I am a responsible Young Lady, And this is my decision. I am going to do this regardless of how you feel about it Mom, But It would make me much happier, and I would have a much better time if I had your blessing, And permission to go on this short trip. I need some time to myself, I will be back, it's not like I am leaving you, And I will carry myself as a responsible adult on my trip. I am not going out to "Run Wild", or "Party Like Crazy", you know I am not like that. You should have more trust in me Mom, and know I am going to be okay, and understand I just need a break, some personal time to myself. I will still call you once a day to let you know I am okay, and to check on you. If your Mother does not understand after explaining it to her like this, Or something similar to this, Then you will just have to be a little more forcefull perhaps. maybe say, Mom I am going to do this with or without your blessing. Tell her you see, this is why I was going to just leave you an e-mail and go, Because I knew I would get this kind of response. But I decided to tell you in person because I thought you would see it from my point of view. I guess I should have just left you an e-mail after all. I am going anyways, I'm sorry Mother. I'll still call every day to let you know where I am and let you know I am fine. You should have more faith and trust in me. I am dissapointed at your reaction Mom, :( . Anyway's hun, I think it should be handled something like this, or as close to it as you can. either way, It's something you really need to do in person, not through an e-mail. Thats just the way I see it anyways. I'm an old man myself, so maybe this is an old-school idea about it? I still think it's the right way to go about it regardless. I really hope this helped you. I also hope you work this out with your Mother, And have a good time on your trip. Be-Safe, and take care.