Wheres my s*x life gone????

Question

i have been with my husband for 14 years we had a really active s*x life.

now for the last few years i really crave s*x but he never wants it

what am i doing wrong ?

i know i have a very highsex drive but we both use to be the same

what do i do

Answer 1

It's natural for your s*x life to wane a little after so many years.Maybe you should try something you've never done before,or set up a romantic date regularly.Talk to him & ask him if everything's ok-stress,medications,tiredness etc can affect the libido.

Answer 2

read

Answer 3

maybe its on holiday in amsterdam?

Answer 4

Buy your husband a bottle of Viagra. He will get more energy.

Answer 5

Whats your age?

Women peek around 30's, when men start to lose it around that time. :P

Sad but true!  How crappy.

Try something to spice it up with him?  Role play?  Act out a fantasy?  Watch dirty movies together?

Good luck.

Answer 6

Is never never or simply less frequently? Hmm, he may be stressed out, tired... Do you guys have any issues? You may have to search for the answer within yourselves. Speak. Good luck!

EDIT: About the additional details, speak with him, that's what you have to do, how can you get along with hugs and kisses and whatever if you don't speak?

Answer 7

You gotta ask your husbane about this.....find out why he does not want to have s*x anymore. Work on things together, possible go to the doctor

Answer 8

Et tu Janet T!

Answer 9

It seems to me you guys need to put the spark back in your love life, you need to try something new, this can entail a lot of things. Every man's s*x drive is different. But dare I say why dont you slip viagra in his drink and see what happens.

Answer 10

maybe he is not ready for it again

Answer 11

Fourteen years is twice as long as the natural span of human affection.  Count yourself lucky.