I just got engaged to a British citizen and he left it up to me whether we should move to the UK or USA. I've been living in the UK for 4 months now on a tourist visa and I have been weighing out the pros and cons between the two countries.
It seems like America doesn't have anything going for itself and it's going downhill with the economy and a less than admirable welfare system in the UK.
It also seems that it would be easier that I move to the UK. One I have a degree and it would be easier for me to find a job and go to school to get an even higher degree to earn money. I wouldn't be in a big rush to find a job for benefits such as health insurance because they have universal healthcare. My fiance will also be able to go to school to get his degree (he doesn't have one but wants to go to school in a lucrative field. Yes, the weather sucks and I don't like but I can get used to it and if I need the sun, Europe is in my backyard and I could go to Spain and he owns an apartment in Bulgaria. We can live anywhere in Europe because he's a European citizen, if choose not to live in the UK. Also, if we live here for 5 years, keep our head down, save a lot of £££, and move to the states, we would be able to afford to because the value of the £££ is twice as much as $$$. Another con, I don't know if I can handle being away from my parents because they are old. Another con, is that it is very inconvenient here, stores and pharmacies close early, but I will get over this easily by preparation.
If we move to America, I would have to rush to get a really good high paying job to support the both of us while he looks for a job. It will be on my shoulders (if I do find a job quickly) to put him under health insurance under my employer (if I am allowed to). He on the other hand, does not have a degree and he will have a hard time finding a job here. I will be stuck in a dead end job just to keep us afloat and keep us on health insurance. I will not be able to hold a fulltime job and earn my Master's and he will not be able to go to school to get his degree. I can try to do both but it will be very, very difficult. Cost of living is high in San Francisco and we won't be able to get our money's worth. Pro -- I'll be close to my family. Con -- If we decide to move back to the UK, we wouldn't be able to afford it because the dollar value is low and it will cost us twice as much to move there.
Ugh, I don't know.
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