Which guy do i choose?

Question

jeremy the one who i went out with 2 times * 16 years old & known him for a year. or tyler who ive known for 2 months...& who we r kinda friends with benifits right now * kissing*... * and hes 14 my age. and i just started highschool and now all of a sudden jeremy is like i want to go out with you again i need to fix some tihings but i really wanna try it again. and tylers like i wanna be more than just friends. and like jeremy hurt me but i love him. and tyler he is really sweet and careing but im not physicfally atracted to him and i just don tfeel the connection..but he is really careing and sweet he was by my side when me and my ex bf for 4 months brokeup and even cussed him out.. and my ex is his BEST FRIEND. hahahaah. and jeremy has left me for anouther girl before. and EVERYONE thinks hes sooo cute. and that really bugs me. and hes a flirt. tyler isnt cute... hes kinda chubby with red hair.. not rally my type. and jeremy is tall skater with brown hair. and i feel like i already gave jeremy a chance so i should move on to someone eles but i miss going out with him. but i also feel like i went out on and off and on and off with jeremy for the WHOLE 8th grade.... and im NOT in 8th grade anymore... so like idk what to do because i dont want to hurt either of them but i want to b with someone who is good for me and will make me happy so HELP

Answer 1

Jeremy will break your heart again. Your not attracted to Tyler. I say find another guy and just tell Jeremy and Tyler you just want to be friends.

Answer 2

Jeremy hun. Otherwise it will take longer for you to "fall out of love" with him, ratehr date him, do whatever you wanna do, then if/when it fizzles out, you would have accepted it was time to move on. Right now the fact that you said he hurt you but you still are attracted to him shows that you arent over him- and it could even signal deeper feelings. I know what its like to love someone who hurt you, just cant get over that. Plus side- you said he's hot, so why not try again?  

Answer 3

walk away from both and look for another so it won't be so messy.