Which is better, going to college (late) or just going for a job?

Question

I'm a 23 year old mother of 1. Since I had my child at an early age, it has not been an option for me (time wise) to begin school as of yet. Now that I feel prepared and like I can manage school, I've been coming to conclusions that perhaps getting a full time job instead of going to college might also be an option. But which one is better?

As of right now, my partner is going to begin graduate school, and this process is very hectic and time consuming. However, giving up my hope to achieve higher education simply because of this fact, seems a little old fashioned to me. Neither working full-time or going to school even part-time will solve all my life's problems. I'm just wondering which option would be in the best interest of myself and my family?

I'm looking for opinions and advice, so if you've got it, I'll appreciate it.

Answer 1

Well, I know that having a little one around can really put a clamp on your personal time. I honestly think going for your Bachelor's would be a great thing- if not, maybe your Associate's in something you can really apply it to, like nursing, or x-ray technician. A college degree doesn't necessarily mean a job, but it will definitely improve your chances of getting more money. I mean, you would work part time with a bachelor's and make the same money working full time with no education.  

Answer 2

If time allows that you go working full time and studying part time would be a best security for yourself and your family .

     although allowing your husband to begin graduate schooling while you work to support him as commendable in civil code ,

Answer 3

It's never too late to go back to school. I'm 28 with three kids, my husband lives two states away for the time being (work) my oldest is in cheer and girl scouts and I have three year old twins. Honey if I can do it (full time with a minor) anyone can.

Answer 4

go back to school! You have this oppurtunity, don't let it pass you buy. I know you want a good life for your child and going to college would be great. You'll have more money to take care of your child and just imagine the example your setting for your kid, they are more likely to go to college if you do. People that have a college degree make more money and work less hours plus you can do something that you enjoy doing! I hope you go through with it, if you do Good Luck!

Answer 5

I have a bachelors in history. It's a pretty useless degree. Even though there was a part of me that would wonder what if I didn't go to college, I did and still have not landed a job, and I'm even even certified to teach and still can't find a job. I've taken jobs paying 10 dollars or less for the last 3 years that only require a high school diploma simply because I can't seem to find a job that actually pays more than 30,000 dollars.

Others I read about also might have a bachelors degree or two bachelors degrees or a masters degree, etc. and either are unemployed or are working at some useless job and making next to nothing.

Going to college can be a good thing or bad thing for people. College might help some people secure a job while others like me seem like they can't get anything.

It depends on what you want to study/major in. Jobs in demand are in the medical field such as nursing. You get a nursing degree and you'll get a job in no time. You decide to get an english degree but don't want to teach (I really don't know what else you could do with an english degree) then you're going to have a hard time trying to find a job with your degree.

Some people major in something that is in demand though they might not like their job. Others might major in something that they love but the degree they got might not be in demand and will have a hard time finding a job. They might end up, like some college grads, taking on jobs that pay little and only require a high school diploma.

Plus right now there is a surplus of too many people holding a bachelors degree in whatever chosen field which could also hinder your chances of securing in something that pays well.

Yes there are dry facts that say someone with a bachelors earns around 41,000 a year (if not more) while someone with a high school diploma might earn around 29,000 a year, etc. and that people with a bachelors degree or better end up making more in their lifetime than someone with a high school diploma, but that can still be wrong. There are people with bachelors degrees making 20,0000 a year, if not a little more or less, which is equal to someone who is a high school dropout.

It's up to you. But know this, if you do go to college, major in something that is in demand. Don't major in something you love but know there might not be a demand for it once you graduate. You'll end up frustrated.