I'm female and I work as a coordinator in a mostly male office. I'm not very comfortable being aggressive. I'm always considerate of what other people have on their plate and if they can accomodate what I need them to do in whatever timeframe. I usually try to negotiate and compromise so that everyone involved is appeased. The problem, I think, is I don't think the team I work for is happy with my approach. I still have to work with the other teams so I'm not comfortable making demands of them; I feel if I'm nice, but assertive, I can still get what I need done and not burn bridges for when I need them to do something for me in the future. It's worked for me so far. I feel like I'm the only was who is this way. I can be very passive and tolerable of some things. So, which is more important to you - building relationships and cooperation in working with others or aggressiveness? Are there any females who are the same way?
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