Which is the main role of a married women with her husband ?

Question

Which is the main role of a married women with her husband ?

Answer 1

To be herself.  That is, presumably, why he fell in love with her?

Answer 2

What is the main "role" in a marriage for a woman?  This sounds like you are talking about being an actress as in accepting a role in a play or film.  The question is equally valid for the man, if for the woman.

In my opinion, marriage is an agreement between two consenting adults to live together and create a family (if possible and wanted).

It is not a license to ENSLAVE your partner or to dominate and control their life or activities or to relegate them to subservience or to consider them to be your property.

The problem is, the perception of what marriage is (and this is fostered by religion mainly) is an agreement between two people to be together FOREVER, in which case, the man is dominant and the woman is passive.  The man "takes charge," and the woman does what she is told whether she likes it or not.  This strips the woman of her rights as a human being, to freely be who and what she really is.  Under these circumstances, she is relegated to a subservient "role."  This is the role you are referring to.  One in which the woman (who, in the eyes of religion) never was a human being to begin with, but rather a piece of property to be sold off into bondage.  We have millions of evangelic Chrisitians in this country who believe in this arrangement.

The role of subservient property is what many women have rejected...although the role of subservient property is what religion promotes right now and up to this moment in time. Religion enshrines marriage as an institution in which religion controls the minds of both partners, their children and their assets through obedience to a belief doctrine.

So when you say "role," the natural reaction from many women will be rejection of the idea, because of what it means and what it is and because the idea of being controlled, either by an individual, by religion or by the state, is inherently repugnant.

Marriage is an agreement between two EQUAL partners in which neither is property or chattel, in which both are equally able to express themselves fully and completely without fear, in which both can seek independent professional lives if they choose, and to equally share all they have with each other and their family.  This is the ideal of modern marriage, as opposed to traditional marriage.  

As far as I can see, many people are still confused about what mariage really is.  They are told one thing by their religious leaders, another thing by government, another thing by friends, another thing by society, another thing by the law(s)...but when they do get married, they have to deal with each other and that is when the confusion comes to a head isn't it?  That is when matters of being treated like property come to a head...when either man or woman insist their partner be passive to their dominance.  I believe the confusion is clearly there about what marriage really is in this day and age and in this country.  And until society gets its act together and addresses the issues of values vrs morality, religion vrs values vrs morality, the law vrs religion and vrs values vrs morality...until this discussion takes place all over this country, we will continue to have nothing but confusion which leads to the high divorce rates we are seeing.

Religion says, basically, "If only you go back to the old days when we controlled every person's mind and life, and do as we say, all will work perfectly for you."

What they aren't saying is, in the so called "old days" things were not as rosey and perfect as they want you to think they were.  People just kept their mouths shut about their personal problems, family problems...women suffered silently under abusive 'roles" with no recourse to the law.  The laws were written to protect men and male domination.  Divorce, in the good ole' days, was almost unheard of because divorce was RARELY GRANTED by all-male courts backed up by an all male religious institution.  Womens concerns were of no concern because, according to the law, marriage was an institution in which the man dominated and the woman was nothing but property.

It isn't like this any more. The good ole' days are not what they are made out to be.  Things have changed.  Society has become more grown up.  It's not as cut and dried as it used to be.  The laws have changed to protect the rights of women and to unpropertize them.

In my opinion, the only role a woman assumes in a marriage, is that of equal partner...nothing more, nothing less.

  

Answer 3

her trust in him

Answer 4

No matter how strong muscles a man has he is emotionally weaker then a women. A man needs women for emotional support. A wife mainly has to play a role of her mans best friend. She need to make him feel comfortable. She should be the place where the man should feel comfortable letting off his gaurds and leaving the crown of pride outside the door when he submits himself in her arms.

Everything else comes later. well.. honesty commitment etc are not roles but charecterstics of the relation. The main role is of being a emotional support.

Answer 5

Main role of husband and wife is not in the bed room.

If you are married for s*x than you have to grow up.

Married couple need to learn from each other of what they like and dislike, and how they find the way to comforting each other through out the life time that they are willing to live together. The key is patient, given, and willing to sacristy for each other.

Life is not a very tale story that you see in the book. There also children, and grand children, and if you live long enough than there will be great grand children.

s*x is very important part of life but that is only for their special moment of what they act and how they act, and what they are discovered at each and every moment. It is very special for the couples also their privates, But they don't just live for a moment, they have to work hard and trying to be prepare for tomorrow may come.

Married is not about finding a free mate. Whom will be there to satisfy your needs.

Answer 6

To Love Him - Simple.

All the other stuff comes from loving the guy, if they didnt love the guy they wouldnt do all the cooking & cleaning etc. If they love him they will want to keep him happy & do all this to please him.

Answer 7

LOVE, CARE, KIND, HAPPINESS, RESPECT, SHARE,

FORGIVE, COMMUNICATE.