Which mental disorder classifications would I fall under?

Question

I like to be alone most of the time I don't really like going to parties or clubs I dont like talking on the phone much And I don't like hanging out with my family that much even though i love them alot

I dont like girls that much because most of them i've met bore me or they are so superficial and materialistic it turns me off Maybe I'm just not really compatible with the ones ive met?

I prefer to hang with guys, just one though If i'm around a lot of guys at once I get self-conscious If I just had a boyfriend and no girlfriends that would be fine with me

I dont have kids, i don't like kids and I dont want kids. I love babies, but when they get old enough to carry a real conversation they just bother me I would never hurt a child or be mean to them because I know they are just young I just prefer not to be around them

I'm never really bored and I have never been jealous of anyone. I see girls prettier than me with better bodies in person and on tv but I have never wished to look like them or were jealous of how they looked or what they had Maybe only jealous of all the places other people have been because i have never been outside my country.

So am I crazy, or what?

Answer 1

Nah there is nothing wrong with you. You express yourself well, you seem to have a natural confidence, and you aren't wrapped up in the crazy things young people do these days. You seem introverted but balanced and with individual opinions, likes, and dislikes. Stay strong and don't change for anybody or let other people make you insecure. Seek out more people if you feel like it, but if it doesn't bother you, then there is nothing wrong with being solitary. I was a lot like you growing up and our personalities are similar in this respect. I always preferred few good friends to many shallow ones, I hardly ever had any girl friends, don't like vanity and drama, and besides my husband, I have very few friends. Most of the time it's just us at home, and that's just fine with us. Don't let the media or your peers' crazy lives make you think that you need to be like them.

Answer 2

You're not crazy, i feel basically the same way, cept the sexes are switched.   And i don't like kids all that much.  But id rather hang around girls than guys, i love to be alone, so no ones bothering me or criticizing me, and why get jealous of someone?  It wont change anything.  You're fine.

Answer 3

You sound very bored, if I were you I would just abandon everything and travel for 2 or 3 weeks. Go on a little adventure and see if you feel better around your family once you are back. That would be my move, I don't know your personal situation.

And you don't sound crazy at all... it can also be dangerous to suspect that you are crazy, because then you notice the little things about yourself, and might even strengthen what is there! The internet can load you with information and misinform you, so be careful.

Answer 4

You're bored. That's why you're here talking about yourself. I don't believe in labelling people. The DSMIV harms people far more than you realize. It stigmatizes them for the rest of their lives. Many people who have been labelled with a mental disorder can't get life insurance, they have difficulty getting a decent job if their employer finds out that they've been diagnosed with "such and such". The list is much longer than this. You are trivializing something that is very complex.

Try reading Toxic Psychiatry by Dr. Peter Breggin.

Answer 5

No, you are not crazy. You are simply a teenager.

Answer 6

ahaha that wouldnt be considered mental. Your probably just more mature than your peers. So your neither cray or mental

Answer 7

nope, not crazy.

Answer 8

A normal teen who wants desperately to be categorized. .