Which one do you think is better?

Question

a person who takes life seriously, therefore is successful on his/her job, has a lot of money, and is known to be a good leader. may be known as "respected"

or

a person who lives like there's no tomorrow or always having fun/carefree, therefore..always partys, has a lot of friends, sexsexsex. may be known as "fun"

Answer 1

Man should not be always serious and successful. Man also should not be in reasonless fun all time. I think if they can make a combination of these both, it would be much better...

Answer 2

the answer depends on who you are. some will think non stop partying is better while some may think success is better

Answer 3

"Look at the means which a man employs, consider his motives, observe his pleasures. A man simply cannot conceal himself! "

Confucius

Answer 4

OK, may be i would consider the one who takes life seriously because there are chances that, s/he is a society's development contributing factor.In short, these kind of people are responsible most of the time for their actions whereas the later are not.In fact the care free type in most cases are not responsible individuals who come to realize that after they have lost quit amount of non replaceable time.

Thanks fro asking

Answer 5

what you can't have both??? I mean i'm successful i have money i'm a leader i love to party and have lots of friends to do that with! and i'm very fun and s*x well talk to my Fiance!!! :)

what this tells me is that to be respected you can't be fun and if your fun your not respected!  it's not allways Black and white!

mix it up a bit!

there for i guess i can't answer your question of who is better

by the choices given neither are better because they are too closed minded to branch out!

Answer 6

Are you talking about your first example McCain and you second example Obama

Answer 7

ok well I belive some of 1 and 2.

You WANT to be successful in your job, you want a lot of money, and want to be known as a good leader. But you also want to be fun and carefree.

So for me, kind of a mixture.

Answer 8

"respected"

You can take life seriously and still have fun.

A serious life is security in oneself

Answer 9

both are as bad as each other; you must have a balance between the two to be a good person to those around you and also yourself.