Which should come first, Marriage or career?

Question

salaam

Answer 1

walaykum

umm i personally think that career should come first cause if you don't work and yo wife don't work then there's a problem there

Answer 2

career.

Answer 3

Career because a good career brings money and a happy marriage needs money.

Answer 4

ermm both

but i would not use the word 'career'

i would say education.

by saying career i could be anything like a window cleaner :)

so i think education is more appropriate :)

Answer 5

career.

i think its better to have a job/career before getting married

Answer 6

Depends!

I heard scholar say that you should get married when you feel like you need it in order to avoid Haraam. You could get married and then carry on with studies or career.

It seems to make very little sense but I guess I got what the scholar meant by saing all those things!

I'd prefer Careere first if not for the sitation above.

Answer 7

Definitely career, coz after marriage you have babies and and then have no time for studying, job etc...

Answer 8

I personallt think career comes first as without a career for one or both people in a marriage than it won't work. So career first then marriage. :D

Answer 9

w/salaam

definitely career!

u have to support ur partner!

Answer 10

- For guys...its the career that needs to come first ....and marriage comes second

- For girls,....same, career should come first.....HOWEVER, if a girl gets approached by a good guy before she is done with her degree/education, she should not refuse for the sake of her career.....because not every girl is lucky enough to marry a pious man these days.....so it depends

Answer 11

career because if u get married u get tied down and have lots of other responsibilities if u know what i mean.

Answer 12

marriage, because it's a commitment to another person, not just to yourself.

Answer 13

career..

Answer 14

If it is the right person, marriage every time. When on your death bed you will never say "Ahh, I didn't spend enough time working!!" You may find yourself asking "Where is the one who has chosen me, and where are our children!" Money and careers are good, but love is essential.  

Answer 15

career, cuz it allows you to be independant financialy from ur partner, mariage can wait

Answer 16

Why can't you have both?If you find someone you care about stick with them. Money means **** all at the end of the day.

Answer 17

Work hard and it will reap rewards later. Build a foundation for a good marriage and while money is not the answer to a successful marriage. it will determine how you live out your marriage beforehand. Best wishes!

Answer 18

Career den marriage...because you need to be able to provide,stand up on your own feet...be independant....qualities which will come use in marriage 2!

Answer 19

I think...career cause once you get married you cant cary on doing half the things that you wanted to because of family and plus just feeling that you dont wanna or something. But if youve done what you wanted and then get married..then atleast you cant say i wish i carried on doing this and thatt.. x

Answer 20

career... marriage can wait  :)

Answer 21

Career definitely.

You can't be a tycoon and be in a relationship, women are just a distraction.  

Answer 22

Salaam,

I think career should come first so you could bring income to the family.

Answer 23

Marraige is half of your deen, so Islamically marraige. But then you need a career to provide for them which is very important to keep you going in the world. I guess it's just the way you look at it.

If you mean which should be the priority from both, then I'd say Marraige

Answer 24

career

Answer 25

I disagree with Tweety------Money isnt the source of HAppiness come to reality my dear....

For men it should be carrer bcoz he needs some income to feed his family

for women marriage :) she isnt reponsible for earning for the family but if wants she can carry on with her carrer after marriage  

Answer 26

Career.

U need a career to support ure marriage.

Answer 27

Career.

Marriages fail but your career will always be there to fall back on.