Which would you prefer? good looks or good personality? wit or charm? brawn or brains?

Question

Hi, I'm 17. I feel like I've lost all my self confidence in me, and I just wanted to ask what matters to guys most? errr.. girls also!

I am neither butt ugly nor beautiful. I'm somewhere in between. I can be funny without trying so hard. I am not dim-witted and am definitely not a ******.

I've had one boyfriend in the past who broke my heart. And now, I'm still stranded and I don't know whether or not I could still ever be wanted or liked (at least) by other guys.

So.. to get to the point, which would you prefer most? Honestly. And why?

Please, you'd really make my day by answering this. Thanks in advance and I promise to vote for the best answer. :-)

Answer 1

Good personality, Charm, Brains.

Every guy will be different based on his personality, but don't lose self confidence, there's a guy out there somewhere just waiting to come and sweep you off your feet, you've just gotta wait.

Answer 2

Good personality, wit, and brains. The last two are the ultimate in making me fall for someone; if someone is brainless, I can't relate to them at all, and wit... ooh. Personality is more important to me than looks, though looks are a plus... though I do have weird tastes in looks.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

A balance of everything except for brawns, i'd prefer her to be smart rather than strong.

Smart women turn me on, it's also amazing to have inteligent conversations with them  

Answer 5

good looks is something but personality is big thing

charm is deceiving but wit saves the day

brawn might win you something, but w/o brain how

can one answer  1+1=2!  no, maybe it is 11 hehehe...

if u have personality, so y be discourage?

if u have the wit? y not think of something productive

for your self  advancement?

and if u have the brain, u should have understood that

it is better to be hurt now than to be hurt later.  get me?

Answer 6

i prefer both because you do want to be somwhat attracted to that person..i cant stand dumb people

Answer 7

I prefer her to just be nice no matter what she looks like and I'm looking right now,. but have not found her yet. Maybe I've been too picky...who knows.

Answer 8

Good personality with charm and brains!

Answer 9

i prefer good looks AND good personality.

he can't be too ugly and he can't be too hot.

i like charm. and brains.

because well, that's just a personal opinion but, i find that most attractive.

i know it takes a long time, but you just have to be patient for the right guy to come to you.