White women, when another race hits on you, do you find it is usually ?

Question

in a respectful or disrespectful manner?

For whatever reason, why do you think that is?

Answer 1

It is typically not in a respectful way.  I have had them go as far to as say it "doesn't matter" when I tell them I am married.  I think there are several reasons.  I think a lot of it has to do with their economic level.  Typically minorities are still living in poverty and I have noticed those from poverty tend to be outwardly less respectful towards women.  I have been hit on by some very respectful men from other races, though they tend to be at least lower middle class. I also think some of it is culture,  I think some cultures, especially Hispanic cultures, are more open about letting others know they are attracted to them.

Answer 2

men are pretty much the same when it comes to hitting on women, no matter what their skin tone is.  some are respectful and even witty about it, and others are pigs.  doesn't matter what they look like.

there is no such thing as race.  read this if you think there is, it shows that people share about 90% of the same dna.

http://www.ahc.umn.edu/bioethics/afrgen/...

Answer 3

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Answer 4

Lol why did Valerie C get so many thumbs down for a non racist answer \:?

Answer 5

I'd judge it based on if it were done tastefully or not, not based on race. I'm biracial, not sure if it counts.

Answer 6

Very respectful.  Particularly from black men.  I'm not sure why, but some of the fierce afro-caribbean mothers I know might have something to do with it  :-)

Answer 7

I don't care what race a man is. I care if he is well educated, intelligent and good looking.

Answer 8

Wow, I don't think anyone's ever been hit on by a whole race.

Answer 9

White women love when non-white men hit on them - It's like a novelty.

Black women are less likely to appreciate when another race hits on them.

Answer 10

In most cases, when men hit on me, it's in a disrespectful way and it has nothing to do with ethnicity.  White, brown, whatever...it's most often rude.  I do get hit on a lot by East Indian men, but I don't think they're all like that...just happens to be the way it's gone.  I'm not sure why you're asking this of white women. There are idiots of every ethnicity.

Answer 11

I know your question is to white women but "Iblockidiots" made a comment I have to address.

"Black women are less likely to appreciate when another race hits on them".....This statement is soooo wrong.

Black women appreciate it just as much.

Answer 12

Since I'm older, when guys of any race hit on me (regardless of their age) they usually approach me respectfully. But if someone is going to be a jerk, it's usually a younger guy, but race hasn't really entered into it for me, I work around people with many different backgrounds (international students/staff as well as American) with lots of different levels of education, so I run across a wide spectrum of people.

The reason I"m usually treated respectfully is because on campus, I'm very assertive and I won't put up with people treating each other poorly, including how they treat me. I've gone up to large groups of men or women or mixed groups (of various races) and questioned them if I thought they were acting out.    

Edit: When I was younger (20-40's), I was hit on by many races and usually it was rude, since they were young. It didn't matter what class they were (white-collar, blue-collar, poor) they usually acted like a jerk. I also use to dress in suits, had long hair, large b*****s, and I guess a pretty face. Personally, I hated that kind of attention.