Who's baby is it? Inquiring minds want to know.

Question

Do I stay quiet and wait until me and my b-fr. to breakup for him to say those aren't my babies or do me & the other guy secretly get tested so I know for myself & the babies who the biological is? I caught me guy cheating, didn't let him leave me like he wanted to at the time, just so I can have some get back. I got back at him and kept getting him until I got caught up(pregnant.) With twins at that. The twins(T-N-T) don't look like my boyfriend but like the other guy. So I want to test them but my boyfriend has signed the birth certificate so what do I do now?

Answer 1

You need to determine who the children father really is........have you not been watching Jerry Springer or Maury.

It is not fair to have your boyfriend accepting the responsibility of taking care of children that are not his. If he really loves you then he will forgive you / or accept the reality that is another person child if that is the case.

What happens ten years down the line when he has made sacrifices for his family and then he discovers that the twins are not his. All the things he has given up within his live and his family were based on a lie. If these are not his children then allow him to decide whether he will stay or go - that way the sacrifices he makes are because he wants to and love you not because he was lied to.

You need to find out and then tell him the truth of the situation.

Answer 2

You'll have to get a DNA test.

You do realize you have screwed your children's lives up don't you?

You can always adopt them out and get your tubes tied if your going to continue behaving this way.Chances are even if they are the "OTHER GUY'S" kids, he may not want them or you.Ever think he is just tapping you because you being taken care of by some other guy and he can go home or to xome other chick's house after he is done with you?

If the babies are your b/f's why would you risk getting pregnant by a cheater?

What if they BOTH dump you?

You got some "get back" all right.You hurt your kids more than the guy you hate.

You may be able to say"they aren't yours, but when the other guy says "they ain't mine,this isn't working out we need to move on". Then what?

You have some thinking to do hon,and you need to think about someone other than yourself right now.

Answer 3

You my dear have caught yourself up in a s... storm. You need to be upfront and honest with him. You obviously don't particularly care if he leaves so why let this deception grow any larger. Grow up and act like a woman and not a silly little girl. Get a dna test and have the birth certificate changed.

Answer 4

Take the test.  Find out for sure, then get some child support for those babies.  

Answer 5

get your butt in gear be honest with your bf give the kids a dna test and dont sit and worry about it tel your bf you made the dumbest mistake to get back at him and what as happend

Answer 6

you owe it to your children to be able to tell them who their biological father is no matter what.  

You are going to have to put your pride behind you and take the test.

It will be expensive contact the health department or welfare office to find out more affordable options.