Who's it gonna be: Mums Vs Dads?

Question

I know that in islam that we should love our mum the most...but what if that mother is not your maternal mother does the same rule apply? What if someone has more than one mother and in the time of the prophet many kids probably had this....so again would the same rule apply to all the mothers?

I know that some parents have favouritism..usually the young ones...can kids 2?

Honestly who can avoid it? Lol

I have to say i love both ma parents the same...but i can't help but love my dad more...becoz he was always here for me unlyk ma mum and me and him get along a lot. I love ma Dad because he still thinks i am a lil girl...but ma mum keeps on remindin me that i have to prove myself worthy to be some1's wifey one day LOl. With Mum it's pressure with dad...it's relief. Me and my dad always joke about...but my mum lets just say when she comes into the room we play dead. Lol her entrance is quiet but lethal!!

So wat about you guys...who do you love more if you do? And why? or who do you get along with more?

Answer 1

totally my mum! isn't ur dad that is posed to be the one all uptight bout the wifey thing thou...lol ok it's a lil funny yea...smiles

Answer 2

both

Answer 3

You are describing a potentially abusive marital relationship with your parents, where your dad is refusing to be the guy who is the back-up disciplinarian, forcing your mom to be the 'bad guy' taking all the responsibility for you. Be careful because you do not want to end up with a man like your dad, who makes you into the ***** of the family. Marry a man who will stand with you and work with you as a team to raise your kids together. Daughters always have a sweet thing for their dads, it's normal. But you won't understand until you yourself have kids what it means to have a child. For you, she willingly allowed herself to feel pain that would be like if you willingly allowed a ten ton truck to slowly slowly slowly roll over your body lying in the street. Would you do that for anyone? Would your dad do that for anyone?

Answer 4

Moms great

Answer 5

yeah u shud give ur love to the one who's taking care of you even if that person is not your biological mother or father.

In short.......love everyone! :P

Parents never have favoritism...all the kids are equal to them

I love both of my parents and both r same to me

Answer 6

i like my mum more

she helps us out more .. well actually she does everything

my dad swears :\ and does nothing  

Answer 7

I love my mom more because unlike my dad she sacrificed a lot for her family and actually got to know her kids.

Answer 8

It varies, for every individual. I personally like my mum more. My dad? Idk him, got divorce when i was 2½.. I don't even have a clue about him.