Who's the Likelier Father?

Question

I had s*x w/ 2 guys in a matter of a day or two. The 1st one I had dated is a heavy pothead & alcoholic & claimed he came in his ex-gf all of the time & she never got pregnant. When he ejacultes, there's very little (like dribbles). So after he told me he came in me, he suggested I rinse it out so I did.

The second guy I had dated had no health problems & in an ultrasound, the baby even kind of looks like him.

Who's the likelier father here? I'm still going to get a paternity test, but my instinct is telling me the 2nd guy's the father.

Answer 1

In a ultrasound you can't really tell who the baby looks like.  All I can say is that the only way you are really going to know is getting the paternity test.  I don't think no one can really tell you who the father is because even though the first dude is a pothead and heavy drinker doesn't mean his *** isn't functional.  Have you ever thought that his last girlfriend was on birth control and maybe that's why she never got pregnant.  Sorry to say it guys will tell you anything if they don't want to use condoms.  Congrates on you baby.  I hope you are able to resolve this situation for the baby's sake.  

Answer 2

Well if you don't want insults don't post stuff like this. I would not want everyone to know that I was sleeping around and  with a pot head.  

Answer 3

It really can be either of them. Don't stress now, just enjoy your pregnancy and wait for the paternity test.  

Answer 4

Im going with the second, but only a paternity test will know for sure.  

Answer 5

The intercourse between the two are too close to make a decision without medical help, you will need to get a paternity test done.

Just for the record, I know crackheads and alcoholics that have produced kids so I wouldn't rule the first one out because of those circumstances and just because he didn't get one g/f pregnant doesn't mean you can't get you pregnant, it's all about timing.

The ultrasounds are just waves and some baby's start really start devloping good parental features until they are at least a toddler so I wouldn't rule in the other guy because of those circumstances.

In the future I would definitely make sure I worn protection (condom) because not only do you not want to be in this situation (I have relatives and friends who have been) but you want to protect yourself from STDS and most importantly AIDS.  

There has been a rise of STDS among Americans in the past two years (just letting you know).

I have had someone die from AIDS and it isn't pretty to watch.

Good luck!

Answer 6

because he smokes pot hes probably not because it lowers their sperm count,alcohol is bad too. u have to get the test to be 100% sure though. next time,try to wait a month before switching guys.

Answer 7

Who knows. You'll probably have to wait to get a paternity test when the baby is born.

Answer 8

How the h e l l are we supposed to know. your the one who had s*x with two guys, the people of yahoo answers aren't dna tests. fyi you can get pregnant from pre c u m  so no matter how much he has you can still get pregnant.. Do schools not have s*x ED anymore?

Answer 9

Get the test!!! You will never know until you get that test. Who do you hope it is? That is my answer to you.

Answer 10

sounds like you need to stop making bad choices, your poor kid