Who can i get out of a releationship of violence?

Question

i don't like violnece and i dnt know how to get out of an reletionship that is help me

Answer 1

you haven't said much to go on.  But there must be some sort of Domestic Violence Support service listed on the phone book.  Call them NOW and ask them for IMMEDIATE help.

Will be thinking of you.x*x

Answer 2

Leave when he's not around, and, provide him with no forwarding address. As soon as possible.

Answer 3

You need to take control of yourself first. Whatever your heart is saying ignore for the moment. If able go to stay with someone who will support you or get the police involved and get the violent person away from you. I have suffered from this and I have children. Its hard for others to say 'get rid of the violent person', but until you can deal with it yourself it's not going to happen. It's a learning curve, when you've had enough you'll deal with it. Don't let it get too late though, it could cost you your life and sanity!

Answer 4

Not lotsa info to go on here Holly, but heres a few suggestions.

First thing, Mr. Bad@ss has got to go. If it's your place and your things it's a bit more difficult, If not just wait till he's gone then pack and split. Go someplace he prolly wont find ya, not someplace he'll look. Involve the local authority's, sign a complaint, tell them you fear for your life and get a restraining order Consider a defensive devise, taser, pistol, baseball bat,

Bigger new B/F usually works. If it's your place, your stuff, involve the police. Pack whats his and put it on the curb,

follow the same advise as above, consider a bigger tough roommate for a week or two.

Answer 5

You have not given us anywhere near enough information to offer you geographic specific advice but, Ask a friend or family member if you can move there! Tell your boss or if your a student your head of studies whats going on. They can then keep your where about private! plan what your going to do ahead and then pack while that person is at work! If your in The USA, Europe, India etc. There should/will be special 'Womens Refuges' in all Major towns! If your a man you have the same options, instead of womens refuge go to the YMCA, or church shelters etc! In the UK Go to the Citizens Advice Centre!! If your in a Muslim country or say India you need to ensure you can move away from the region where your families live! You will understand why I know! If this is not enough information for you, Please provide more information. Country, Genda etc! Good Luck!

Answer 6

turn your phone off, don't open the door, go and stay with someone for a few weeks...???

Answer 7

Good to ask as it means you know you must get out.  The police can put an injunction and stop teh violent person form coming near you.  Refuges exist to shelter and protect.  

One day you are going to the shops and don't go back....but have a plan in place and somewhere to go....refuge or friend.....Or when the other is at work or out throw what you can in a bag and do the same.  But go it will only get worse if you stay.

Answer 8

Walk out

Pack some bags when your other partner is out and just up and leave

Leave them a note saying how much you dont like the voilence.

Go to a friends or a partents for abit then get you life back to normal x

Good luck (Y)

Answer 9

u need to get out or go to police

Answer 10

well if u a adult  u can hit him to and if u young tell ur dad r girl there nothing i can do, if i help u can wacth that movie dat media when the men keep hating her n she get strong and do the same thing too n he had stop

Answer 11

Being a former director of a battered women's shelter, violent relationship have so many emotional ties.  Those ties may be the church, family, or financial.

When you say, who can help you get out of a relationship?  The answer is yourself.  Most men and women stay in a violent relationship to fill a need, then when that need is met and they finally wake up.. sometimes it is too late (they die) or their children...

My answer to you is to look at your life and see if this relationship is what you want for the rest of your life?  Is this relationship what you want for your children?  Do you want to put your family in danger too?  

Do not wait until you have the right amount of money.

Don't wait until you find another person to help you out of that relationship.

Don't wait until you are put into the hospital to get out.  

Many people will help you, from law enforcement to battered men or women shelters.  Churches and even family.

The problem with family is that most families see this pattern over and over again.  The abused return to the violence over and over.  

Please seek help.  Please get out.  Please find someone to help you.

Answer 12

Get intouch with me and I come and knock 7 shades of you know what out of him as I cant stand blokes who do that.

Failing that just wait untill hes out the house and leave or phone the police JUST TELL SOMEONE SO YOU CAN GET HELP

Answer 13

Need to know more info, but I would pack my things and leave.

Answer 14

tell them to walk out when hes not there...or call the police  if you have to..