Who can i talk to about my Brother?

Question

My brother is a jerk...he only looks after number one and that himself of course his a lazy jerk around the house he treats everyone like c**p when ever he can including my mom when ever he can but the thing is that i hate him his 17 going on 18 i'm 16 he hides behind the fact that he has mostly all AP classes which makes think his better then everyone else and i'm tried of every day having to go through his verbal abuse and his physical abuse that he makes us go through to day he beat me because i wouldn't pick up the boxes he threw on the floor he threatened to throw a fork at me then i told him how crazy he was because he was going to stab a kid with a fork for not picking up some boxes That he threw and was to lazy to pick up the thing is that all my life i have let him punish me and i'm tried of it he blackmails on anything that he can get dirt on me ant he thing is now that we got rid of my dad for many reasons he still does the same **** and he calls my mom lazy because shes not home she works most of the day and takes care of my sisters and he just sits there on his comp all day and complains and says how shes a bad mother when its been my mom all his life who has protected him because my dad didn't do anything and i'm tried of i just want to know if i talk to a counselor about this will him going to a juvy or boot camp affect him in his chances of getting into college and i don't care if they end up sending me with because i know that his defense he will try to hurt me as much as he can before they get him but i don;t care anymore as long as he gets the help he needs and gives my family the peace they so much deserve

Answer 1

wow he sounds like a dumb***....if you wanna know the reason...HE'S A SENIOR

Answer 2

You need to take your long-suffering mom for a leisurely walk around the block after dinner and have a talk with her about what all you are enduring.  Explain that your brother has taken on your dad's worst behaviors and the abuse is killing you.

If your mom cannot or will not do anything, at the very least you can talk to the school counselors to see if they can give you some coping skills. Unless you show up with physical battering, they can't do anything at all to him.  

At the very least, you need to play "keep away"... in other words, you don't go home before your mom arrives home. See if she can help you get some wheels so you can get a job after school(like maybe a scooter), or participate in more after school programs (clubs, sports) to enrich your curriculum vitae for college.

When you get home, you keep yourself out of his reach.

That's a crummy way to live. I've been there.