Who can tell me otherwise?

Question

ok why do people, when first meeting them, judge them in to the same cateogry as "society". to be specific why do people hate other people that are extremely different than they are. they act like theyre not being themselves. they just happen to like listening to music nobody likes( reggaeton holla) and diferent believes and morales that a normal perosn cant relate to.i dont judge so i dont expect other people to judge me. is that wrong to justify?

Answer 1

Well, you do judge, you just did.

The term "hate" is so strong that I think it's usually used inappropriately. however, your question is valid I think.

People naturally categorize others into certain categories because people like groups and organization. People or things outside the norm do stand out and will be noticed more. Some will find that conforming lifestyle unstructured, illogical, or pointless. If you look at it from a functional point of view: those that conform will most likely get along with more people and thus more likely to succeed in their jobs. Folks see the continuity in them and are encouraged that they are "going somewhere", or at least could if they want to. those that are different, in looks and in style as well as personality can be viewed as throwing away potential.

I think it's mainly the idea that they might be not giving themselves a chance to be great, or be "successful". It comes out as disapproving with looks of disgust or even hate. Those folks, when looking at the others that are obviously different (not bad, just different) say "why do they make a point to be different, unless it's to make a point". If so, what's their point?

So it's lack of understanding, or difference in cares of the world. So they judge them as wrong or even stupid.

I think that of face tats personally.