Who do u think should apologize??

Question

There are 2 cousins lets say ones names is Kate and the others name is Helen. Katie invited everyone she knew for a sleepover party at her house the night just before graduation. Everyone had a great time and the ceremony took place 2. Then after the ceremony was over they all went home. Every1 had a great time. Katie had 2 go to a graduation party which she had already told everyone about. SSo she left. There was protest from Helen. After the little party she came back home and Helen was still there and she was mad. She never spoke 2 katie again and spread word about teh fight so that Katie could get the blame. She told every1 that Katie ditched her. Whod o u think should apologize???

Answer 1

Helen

Answer 2

Unless you left out key information, Helen should apologize.  Katie did nothing wrong.

You said Katie told everyone, which must include Helen, about having to go to a graduation party beforehand.  So, Katie did not "ditch" Helen and Helen had no good reason to protest, be mad at Katie, or lie about Katie to others.  Even if Katie was somehow at fault (and I don't see how based on your post), Helen had no business spreading the word to others.  Helen appears to be very immature.

Answer 3

I think everyone should apologise to Helen, therefore lifting the fool's delusion from her mind.

Answer 4

Who is at fault?  Well, pretty obviously Helen is at fault.

However, objective judgement rarely has anything to do with this.

Answer 5

It is not a matter of who SHOULD, but rather who WILL.  Clearly "Kate" believes she did nothing wrong or she wouldn't have done it in the first place. Thus, chances are she will NOT apologize.  "Helen" believes that "Kate" is to blame and therefore chances are, SHE will not apologize.  I'd be surprised if either one says they are sorry.  It is always easier to place blame elsewhere.  

Answer 6

Helen would be the one out of line and should apologize.  She is being a whiner and acting like a four year-old.

Answer 7

Helen should apologize, because if Katie gave advanced notice of the graduation party, then that should be respected.  The way she handled it was also quite immature.  She could have handled it in a much better way, by talking to Katie and telling her she felt ditched, instead of making it public in order to shame her.  I think they should sit down and talk, and that this is only a petty argument.  Life's too short to hold grudges.

Answer 8

Helen sounds like she was in the wrong as Kate had informed everyone previously that she had another function that she needed to get to.

Helen should apologise if she knew in advance that Kate had to leave for another party.

Answer 9

helen..defenitely!

Answer 10

You seem to be on katie's side, i could only decide if i heard both stories from the original people involved, allegedly Helen and Kate.

i would especially like to hear Helen's version of the story, because you introduced us with Katie's version, i think.

Answer 11

Helen should definitely apologize Katie.