Who do you love more????????

Question

If you already have children and then you adopted who do you love more???????

your child

or

your adopted child

or

love them the same

Answer 1

why wouldent you be able to love them the same there is no shame in that

i mean you  are helping a child out and that child should be as big a part of your family  as your your owen child   so  you should be able to love them the same . I mean its  up to  you

  you shouldent adopt if you have doubts

hope thjois helps

Answer 2

OMG if you doubt how much love you have in that big heart, then dont bother to adopt.

simple

Answer 3

My child with the same bloooddd!!!!!!

Answer 4

You sound real sophisticated.

my grandma totally loved my cousin who was biologically related to her over me who was the adopted one. You could cut the favortism with a knife it was so thick and in my face.

Answer 5

well i agree with everyone here. but if the adapted child is kind of old when you adapt them then I dont think that you can really get that bond that you would if thwy were younger. I think that if you adapted the child and they were really young then you can get that bond but otherwise that bond is just not as strong. So you should love them the same but if they are older and you adapted them then you may just no form that special bind but you most definately should LOVE THEM THE SAME!!!!

Answer 6

I think that you love your child the same no matter what.

A Mother's love is a Mother's love.  It has no boundaries..

Blood doesn't come into it.

Answer 7

I don't like you.  You are mean.  Please go away.  Thanks.

Answer 8

I didn't know you could love children more or less if they weren't your own bio children??  I love my (step) son, my (adopted) daughters and the baby I'm planning all the same ... you shouldn't love anyone of them more or less ...

Answer 9

I KNOW my aparents love their two bio kids more.  

And I don't blame them.  I love the kids I made with my husband better than any kids I've ever known.

Answer 10

if you believe you won't love the child the same then why would you adopt??? i don't understand why you would even entertain this thought

oh...

you're 16.  gotcha.

go study, dear. midterms are coming up soon.

Answer 11

I'm confused.  Is 'your adopted child' not 'your child' then (scratches head)

Answer 12

Wow, you are really immature for 16.

Are you adopted?

Answer 13

I second Isabel's answer.

Answer 14

Love them the same :]

Answer 15

You would love all your children the exact same, why wouldn't you. Your child is your child no matter if you gave birth to it or adopted it. They are all your children.

How can you say you wouldn't love your adopted child as much as a biological child? Can you see into thefuture? You may have a biological child and not bond with it. Having children and raising children is not all black or white.

Adoption is a tough and very strict process, its very difficult to get approved for adoption, and rightly so, the children come first in adoption. If you think now, that you would not love an adopted child as much as a biological child, then there is no way on earth you would ever pass the adoption process.

Maybe you are thinking about adopting for all the wrong reasons?

You are very young, and you don't seem to know much about adoption. I wish you well in the future.

Answer 16

I know I would love both the same because my parents love me the same as their biokids.  Love grows it does not shrink.

Honey don’t ever ever adopt then.  No child deserves that.

Answer 17

The fact that you are asking this question, should mean that you should not adopt. Also too, don't go around making fun of adopted children.

Answer 18

,You have to be at least 25 to adopt in most countries, in other countries you have to be older! So you have a ways to go! And thank god because you have a lot of growing up to do! A mom loves all of her children the same, if you don't think you can do that then you need not to adopt!

Answer 19

I love Jesus.