Who does the work in YOUR relationship?

Question

You know what I mean: paying rent on time, keeping bills organized, paying them on time, scheduling hotel, flight and restaurant reservations, making appointments for the doctor, car, vet, whatever, grocery shopping, laundry, etc, etc, etc!!

My man likes for me to think he is incapable, I do all of it.

Answer 1

Well.. we're both in it together so its like both of us

Answer 2

I think it's more common for women to "do it all".  We are great multi taskers, to our detriment!

To avoid getting bogged down with so much, I believe the best thing to do is establish what we are willing to do or not at the beginning of the relationship or we can be faced with many years of managing it all.

I can relate!