Who else is big and proud?

Question

I'm in high school and i'm quite chubby.But i find it hard to fit in because many people these days compare people to magazine girls.

I want to be confident and proud of who i am and what a look like but its really hard in a school enviorment. My brother is quite chubby aswell and he is in work and he is one of the most respected and popular people , ive ever known so how can i be respected? and how do i get people to like me for who i am and what i look like.

Who else is big and proud?

Answer 1

Just be confident and yourself!

big small fat thin tall skiny blonde brunnete or ginger!!

everyone is the same to some point! people love sombody with confidence a happy person!! no one should have to feel they dont fit in with a group of people because of how they look!!

be confident and be proud of who you are!

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Answer 2

Not I said the fly. I watch what I eat 90% of the time and exercise if I need to. I prefer being a healthy weight.

Lol @ thumbs down for being a normal weight. I'm not model stick thin but I've never let myself become overweight I've been health conscious my whole life. I don't get this big and beautiful movement, most of the time it isn't a healthy big.

Answer 3

you could love your self for who you are and

you couldn't listen to people what they say about you .

feel proud that who you are .you can make that happen .

Answer 4

I'm 14 on the bottom and 16/18 on top and dont spend any time wishing I was thinner.

I know its hard but try not to worry about being popular or "respected".  Remember people who judge you on your size arent people you should want to be friends with and care what they think anyway as they are obviously very shallow!

Its better to have a small group of genuine, good friends who'll always be there than to have lots of casual friends who'll drop you when they're bored hun.  Just try to relax and be yourself, and you'll attract people with similar interests etc at you at school.

Good luck.

Answer 5

I think you are brill!!! So many people want to be as skinny as the people in the mags but don't seem to be able to accept that it is

Computer generated or down to liposuction!  If you trying to fit in with people like that then dont bother! Just act your self and people who are worth being friends with will see it!!

Answer 6

not me;

Answer 7

I AM!!! Not that I'm not trying. I exercise 3-4 times a week, watch what I eat, and try to drink lots of water. But as you get older it gets harder to lose the weight. As far as the people in your school....if they're going to judge you by what you look like then they're not worth your time. Smile, hold your head up high, and be proud of who you are.  

Answer 8

You know there is nothing worse than an idiot thinking because you are not skinny you have to be unhealthy.If that was the case why are most of the skinny people croaking before US fatties.I swear don't try to be anyone but,yourself.If you wake up in the morning and your living then your blessed act like it.Heavy people don't always shove food down their throats like people think.I stayed very skinny and SICKLY I might add until I was 22yrs. old and I started to get sick a lot I found out I had a Pituitary Gland Tumor and I gained a massive amount of weight.I have tried everything I can to lose but,nothing worked I finally realized I can't be me for everyone else I gotta be me for me.So stop worrying about nothing.If all they have to do is ostracize  you then they don't have much going on in their lives anyway.The people that will matter in your road to success are all you need to worry about okay Sweetie.

Pleasantly Plump and Lovin' Every Minute!   ;)   Be You Boo.