Who else is tired of the boys are better that girls, and vice versa questions?

Question

These are childish and they miss the intention of this Forum. There are so many real issues facing men and women that could be discussed. Everytime I hear one of those questions it makes me think of 1st grade.

Answer 1

I agree 100% with this one.

Answer 2

Raises hand.

Answer 3

I've been tired of it for over 50 years.  I have a father and son so remarkably strong and self-determining and honorable that I'm utterly gaa-gaa over them like in a hero worship.  That's OK.  Heroes happen, and I just happen to be related to two of them. It troubles me as a mother, nurse, educator and devoted daughter, especially intellectually and problem-solving-wise, to know what men's potential really is and then to see young men so weak emotionally and intellectually and stunted in lower levels of consciousness in their rise into their true power, rational healthy vision and potential for goodness.

We speak of our unalienable human rights.  Well, exactly how does a civilization that can go to Mars and crack open the human genome produce boys so stunted and damaged?  Haven't these boys rights been violated somewhere, somehow for them to be so unable to cope constructively and rationally with others in society?  Some of these messed up boys "blame" girls and feminists.  But, those boys aren't any more rational than bacteria.  Many of them are barely tribal in level of social consciousness.  What happened to them?  That's serious damage compared to past generations. rational men and women must objectively, honorably not abandon the little turds in any way and must instead figure out what is really the cause or blame for how so many young men reach adulthood already so damaged and compromised and damaging to the health of society.

Most of what harms "men" is caused by violations of their Children's Rights when they were growing up, supposedly being well-cared for and well-educated.  Children have RIGHTS, too.  People must set aside the BS and get real about stopping the campaign to make it too hard for mothers to raise their children in post-Industrial society unless they "comply" with religious marriage and "gender role" rules, because the CHILDREN are suffering.  Most of the boys who whine about "men's rights" couldn't care less about children or other men, only themselves, because it is the "traditional" gender male who as a voting block RELENTLESSLY votes down every single child supportive measure, schools, quality childcare, child nutritional programs, child health insurance, gun control laws, etc..  The harder it is for women to raise their children healthy and safe, the more men will grow up damaged and unable to achieve their full strength, rational vision and potential.

Organizations such as the U.N. and social / economic stabilizing goals that have been launched all over the world have redirected their focus away from trying to "empower" male leaders in unstable communities to, instead, empowering females because it turns out, duh, that what was destabilizing and weakening economies and communities was exactly the self-serving "good old boy" oppressive/exploitive paradigm of all-male leadership at merely the tribal level of consciousness!  

For rational adults all over the world, it's not about "girls are better than guys".  For people with the U.N.'s Millennium Goals, for example, and for the vast majority of feminists, it's about: "Empowering girls stabilizes economies."  PERIOD.  The crushing tax-payer burden of dead-beat-dads alone in the U.S. apparently will not resolve unless we spend MUCH more money and focus on educating females and empowering THEM to become more rational and self-sufficient because the new breed of "chivalrous" males that you are addressing here in your question has the honor of grubworms and refuse to be held accountable for their children.  

What I am MOST tired of in this issue is the entire putrid, NON-gender specific, self-serving paradigm of entitlement, domination and self-empowerment versus the humanistic paradigm of people empowering each other to make our societies stronger for the good of ALL of us.  I am REALLY getting sick and tired of the whiny narcissistic losers.

Answer 4

I think most people are.  It's sad that some people don't see the interhent value of both genders, and that people continually promote hate against one another.  But sometimes people have to hate just because it makes them feel better, and blaming others and generalizing is easier than actually thinking things through and admitting fault at times.

Answer 5

It appears not many. A lot of the people here don't actually like to sensibly debate, they childishly like to hurl insults and puff up their own pathetic egos with such questions.

This week 10 yes 10 of my questions have been deleted which are perfectly legitimate and unoffensive yet we still get all the 'whos better men or women!/ flooding in daily.

Answer 6

That's all modern feminism stands for, that only females matter, males are just an annoyance.

Answer 7

Anatol is the perfect example of that. Reminds me of a kid you would find in middle school. He hasn't gotten out of the "boys are better than girls" phase.

Answer 8

I think it's stupid and childish. It would be ok if someone was in 5th grade, but when you learn to GROW UP, you realize that everyone is a human, right? So nobody's better than someone else just because of race, color, gender, size, shape, etc. I don't know if that's the point you were trying to make since you said Anatol's was a good answer, but that's what I think.

Answer 9

right now there are women walking in college campuses with t shirts that say "boys are stupid throw rocks at them"...if you want to stop the childish behavior you should start from there.

Answer 10

I'm sick of them.  Men > Women.  Fact of life that's been known for 4,000 years, LOL.

Answer 11

I'm tired of feminists reporting and deleting questions they don't like or can't answer.

Answer 12

It is dull... I'm hoping if you keep repeating that the genders are simply not that different it might sink in subliminally.

Answer 13

This whole superiority and insecurity things are results of immaturity. We stupid humans like to separate ourselves with other people and discriminate/think bad of others. It's just stupid, and even I'm vulnerable to such things. Ugh, I hate it.

Answer 14

Perhaps Yahoo Q&A should add lobbies by age.  As it is, the age range is 13 and up.

Answer 15

You've made an excellent point-and  yes-I'm very tired of the childish insults that many try to pass off as "questions". I look forward to the forum improving-it can only get better-right?

Answer 16

Personally I'm sick of hearing the self-congratulatory drivel of liberal pro-feminist males.

Answer 17

Just a troll that the mods should deal with. I try not to feed them.

        But they are very annoying.........

Answer 18

I'm not surprised by it. Annoyed by it, yes. Sometimes.

But I'm learning to be more discriminating in the topics I choose to read here and ignore the ones that are boys against girls (1st grade-type reference intended). The questions are so numerous I doubt they're going away any time soon and I don't choose to waste my time answering them or worrying about their proliferation.

And you're right - there are more real issues facing us that we could discuss.

Answer 19

I'm sikc of immaturity in general, my own included. Unfortunately a lot of people think the internet is their own personal playground to reveal just how pathetic and disgusting they really are and laugh at those who are offended.

Answer 20

The ones who are always worrying about it are insecure deep down. EDIT //////////   I'm tired of anti feminists reporting and deleting questions they don't like or can't answer.

Answer 21

I know I'm tired of it as well. I hope from this point on we can have more adult oriented discussions on real topics and stop with the playground bickering.

Answer 22

I wouldn't say i'm tired of it, otherwise I wouldn't bother getting out of bed tomorrow, i'm more used to it. It doesn't bother me, it is when the phrase is reversed and someone says 'men are lower than women' or 'women are lower than men'. That way around it actually means something specifically negative rather than one s*x being better for a positive reason. Even if by expressing an apparently possitive aspect of one s*x the other s*x is at the same time  said to be worse, it isn't completely explicitly said.

Then again, anyone who spends a lot of time trying to combat this issue obviously doesn't have much else to do. If I see a person being disgustingly sexist I will speak up, otherwise I just carry on studying for uni, play guitar, hope to god I can afford a pint or two at the weekend and think (worry) about my future.