Who else is ttc and mad as h**l?

Question

i got another neg test today! i am so frustrated because i get on hear and i read all these irresponsible teenagers who get knocked up their first time having s*x! im sitting here desperately trying to get pregnant and some ungrateful little brat is getting an abortion right as we speak, so she can go out next weekend and **** some weird guy again with out protection. this isnt fair! i know its 25% chance, but is it the people who don't want a baby always seem to get it!?!? does anyone have any tips to up my odds at all? i stop eating fast food, and drinking caffine, my husband stopped smoking and i lay down for thirty mins after we have s*x, any other tips? even if they are old wives tales ill try anything at this point. thanks

Answer 1

this probably will sound very weird and awkward but i could not get pregnant at all for the longest time. finally i told my husband that i was going to try something. one day after we had had s*x and he came, i immediately litterally stood on my head for about 3 minutes. a month later i found out i was pregnant. i had to do the same thing to get preg for my daughter. come to find out, my uterus is tilted and i might have polycystic ovary disease along with my polycystic kidneys. im not saying that it will 100% work for you but theres nothing to loose except a few minutes with a head rush, and everything to gain if it works. let me know . hope this helped and good luck.

Answer 2

I totally understand! Try to relax, and just know that it will happen at the perfect time. Don't rush it. Good luck to you.

Answer 3

i think everyone has a twinge of hate and jealosy when trying to get pregnant you worry you stress you wonder am i doing it right. whats wrong with me. why cant i get pregnant. you just have to remember that every month you are not pregnant is just one more month you get to save up for when you are. instead of having the remedial s*x just to make a baby try to liven it up a bit. take a nice bath eat some nice food massage each other and dont think i am trying to make a baby no think about the fact that you are in love with your partner and that you enjoy his touch and enjoy touching him live in the moment not what the moment could bring later. the more you relax the better the chances. and for me it was easy but i have heard herbs can help alot check google for fertility herbs there are alot of good sights out there

Answer 4

get Ouvations kits and find out when you are oulating and then have s*x from behind. You might have a tilted cervix.  I heard it works..

Answer 5

Omg i feel the same way .....i hate that all these 13 yrs are getting prego and the ppl that want to get pregnant cant ...I have been tryin for about a year now and im waiting to test now i have  4 days till my period and im hoping and praying that its not negative!!!!!!! if it is me and my hubby are just gonna stop trying:( So good luck hun Best advice know when u ovulate and get to work then!!!!

Answer 6

I used Preseed and we conceived our baby.  We tried for 18 months and Preseed was the last resort before going to the doctor.  We now have a beautiful 2.5 week old daughter!  I know how frustrated you are.  Check out the website and read what all Preseed does.

Answer 7

I sooo feel where your coming from. Sometime I feel like just giving up. Even the drug addict of society get pregnant. I have friends that keep having kids on welfare yet here I am with an education and a good job and nothing.

I will keep trying though, and praying as well and next time I  pray, Ill pray for you as well

God Bless and I sprinkle lots of baby dust on you

Answer 8

Well, I can't say that I know from first hand experience what you are going through, I tend to get pregnant very easily.   But I have heard of a few things that you might want to try.   If your husband isn't already, try having him wear boxers instead of briefs.   Also, try waiting a couple of days before you ovulate, without any sexual contact, and try to make sure he doesn't "take care of himself". Get plenty of sleep.  Tilt your hips up, instead of just laying down for 30 minutes after s*x.  Make sure you pee right after that to try and avoid infection.  Limit alcohol.   Try not to stress as that can throw off ovulation.  And just keep trying.  It takes many women at least a year of trying to get pregnant.