We had a 9 year relationship as childhood sweethearts, grew apart and lived seperate lives for 10 years, he went on to have 3 children with the 1st girl he met and got pregnant within a month of the our relationship breaking up!! I was devastated at the time. We met again 3 years ago and kind of rekindled the relationship to a certain extent, he asked me to marry him when we first met up again but I was seeing someone at the time and told him I wanted the other guy as I was afraid of going back to the relationship especially seeing as he had 3 kids with his ex. My relationship since broke up. Now my old sweetheart and I are very close friends and there has been ongoing casual encounters. We Talk on the phone almost daily and text through the day, we have meet ups weekly or more frequently and there is intimacy. He is seeing someone else & living with her but he hardly sees her as her career comes first and she works long hours 6 days a week. I'm currently not seeing anyone else, he has said it would only take me to say the word for us to get together properly and be the couple we "Always should have been..." do you think this could work again? Would it be a bad move? I who was badly burned by this guy way back when and also by my other ex recently...I do have very strong feelings for my sweetheart, I never exactly fell totally out of love with him but I was very hurt & have learned to put up walls. He broke my heart but did move on with my life. We have both matured and are 2 very different people now but the feelings are still there. I am now wondering could we actually work as a couple, would I be making a huge mistake?
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