Who is 'that girl' my ex talks about?

Question

Me and my ex boyfriend split up about 6 months ago, at first I hated him for hurting me and dating other girls to get back at me. But just recently, we've managed to start getting along again as friends. On his msn status he's got sayings such as 'I don't know what to do about that girl'. Since we split up, I've only ever asked him about his love life once and he said it was okay. But I'd be lying if I said I didn't still have feelings for him as more than friends, just a couple of months ago I did try and get back with him but he said he just wanted to be friends. He doesn't seem to have any love interest at the moment but I've always wondered who 'that girl' he is talking about on his msn status, I've been told to just ask him but I'm worried about the response I'll get as I don't know if I should tell him I still have feelings for him, please help! x

Answer 1

How on earth isanyone on here supposed to know who the girl is!?!?!?!

If he only wants to be friends, accept that because you wont change his mind if he doesnt want a relationship. if you really need to know who the girl is you no fine rightly you have to ask HIM because only HE knows, no one on here does!

just ask him.....good luck

Answer 2

i dont think he`s on about you, he`s your ex...move on.

Answer 3

Let love come to you ....Don't push it or you'll never be truly in love..I think since u two have a history together and he does just want to be ur friend, then just do some innocently flirting...and maybe he'll give u some hints as to how he really feels about u.

Answer 4

i think it you he talking about lol you sound as tho you been stalking him,give him space lol and if he want you he knows were to find you  

Answer 5

he's your ex.  as in EX.  get over it, it's none of your business  

Answer 6

You'll have to ask him.  It's impossible for anyone on here to know who she is.

Why worry about the response?  He'll either say it's you or it's not you (or it's a song lyric, lol).  It doesn't mean anything.  Remember, you're not dating anymore, even if you want to be, so it doesn't really matter.  If you want more, try again, but as it stands right now, he only wants to be friends.

Answer 7

you should tell him you have feelings for him and then ask him who that "girl" is. What this allows him to so is either pick you or reject you. It's a tough spot to put yourself in if you have a lot of feelings vested in him. Maybe try the friend thing a little bit longer and then pop the  question on him.

Answer 8

I think it is in your heart's best interest to cut off contact with this guy again for awhile, at least until you no longer have romantic feelings for him.  Realize this - your current "friendship" is not genuine because you wouldn't be so happy for him if he had a new girlfriend and you would be devastated.  Do yourself a favor and get some space between you until you can really look at him and mean it when you say, "good for you!" about his new girlfriend.