Who is it worse for your significant other to cheat on you with?

Question

Would you be more hurt if your bf/gf or husband or wife cheated on you with somebody close to you or a complete stranger....or acquaintance?

Answer 1

So now cheaters are measuring the level of pain they cause? Oh boy! I'm pretty sure that the pain would be at it's highest level, if the person cheated on you with a family member or close friend. That would pretty much be a double slap in the face.

Answer 2

definitely someone your close to.  Its a double whammy.  Not only does your lover betray you but so does a friend. I

Answer 3

i dunno if it really made a difference if my husband cheated on me with a total stranger or an acquaintance or a freind...for me the fact that he cheated on me is enough to hate him or move away from him...but yes if i wud have to deal with my husbands gf on a daily basis i wud be more hurt as it wud bring those memories in front of me every time i saw her...(im so glad i dont have to c her every day..thank god!)..

Answer 4

By someone you know.  Because then you lose two relationships, not just the marriage.  Sad question.

Answer 5

Any. Cheating is a deal breaker for me, period.  

Answer 6

Always someone close because you get betrayed twice. Although it's painful regardless of who it is.  

Answer 7

It's more hurtful when its someone close to you. Although 9 out of 10 times if the person is close to you, they ain't c**p anyways! So its the least person you'll be jealous of. But a complete stranger is more of a threat because its more to ponder about what he/she has that you don't got.

Answer 8

absolutely someone close to you. You get kicked in your teeth by both your spouse and your best friend!

Answer 9

anybody and anyone!!! the fact that someone would sleep with anyone other than their spouse is pathetic and low!!!!

Answer 10

someone close

Answer 11

significant other, always dislike words like this. Moving right along, if you love someone and they cheat on you it all adds up to hurt, no mater who it was with. Hurt is hurt

Answer 12

Somebody close to me that would be really hard to take,But It would hurt no matter who it was with

Answer 13

somebody close to hurts the most ... trust me been there husband cheated on me with his ex so yeah it hurts

Answer 14

My brother or best friend or dog would just SUCK!  

Answer 15

Deffinetly somebody you're close to.