Who should be mad? ?

Question

In a marriage that's has been going on for about 10 years.

Who should be mad in this situation.

The women who feels that after 10 years of marriage her husband should love her despite her some (significant) weight gain (or loss).

Or

The guy who isn't attracted to his wife because she isn't the same person see was when they got married.

Answer 1

The 1st one. The second one should just tell her about that and see if they can fix it. The 1st one - its a know brainer!

Answer 2

if its just bc appearence it should be the woman who is mad. if he married her, he shouldnt care about how she looks as much as her personality.

if how she is changed as well as how she looks, then its okay for the guy to be mad too

Answer 3

your wife is right. so your saying after ten years of being with her that you were only attracted to her looks all long? god your and ***. who she is as a person is still the same..

Answer 4

Ya gotta find the woman attractive, just like she has to find the guy attractive! You cant force yourself to have s*x with someon you dont fancy. As for love, thats different...You can love someone, but if it isnt sexual, then its not a "in love"

Answer 5

women in the first and man should be mad in the second, more concerned.

Answer 6

the woman  

Answer 7

The women, because the husband should be understanding and have the character to stick by his wife through thick and thin (no pun intended). How could the husband be such a heartless and short-sighted person? Wasn't this the same person he decided to share your life with based on factors other than physical attributes? Tell him to be supportive of her when she needs it most [now], women need it more than we do.

Think of it this way, how would he like it if his wife decided to stop loving her husband because he was balding?