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Who should i believe? and what should i do?

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ok so me and my girlfriend have been going out for 2 years now. her name is heather. we werent able to talk to each other for alittle while so her parents thought we broke up "just so you know her parents hate me more than anything" so this is her side of the story. she says that her parents thought we broke up and where really happy about it but we never did. she tells me that if her parents ever brought it up that she would tell them we went out still. so we where finally able to talk to each other and we talked everyday for hours and we would see each other but its hard to see each other because as long as she lives with her parents shes not aloud to see or talk to me because im half black. and she would get into trouble.so we ould find ways to see each other everyday she tells me how much she loves me and i believe her because we do love each ther very much. then just yesterday she tells me that she was going to tell her parents about us everything about us. but the her phone went dead so i tried to instant message her but it was her mom. now here is her moms side of the story. her mom says that heather hates me that she has moved on and that she is with her new boyfriend as we where talking. and of course im gonna say no im her boyfriendand her mom was saying that heather is happy with her newboyfriend and that i need to leave her alone then i tell her mom that me and heather talk everyday for hours but then she said somthing that really stuck out is that heather waas going to get her classes changed because i was in 2 of them but when i talk to heather she was so excited that we had 2 classes together and so was I. heather tells me that she wants to marry me and live with me forever i just heard her say that yesterday i know heather loves me but is she really telling her parents all that stuff just to make them happy if so what should i do. but what if her mom was lying to me but how would she know about the classes if heather wasent telling her im so confused right now. its been aday and heathers phone is turned off and i cant get ahold f her so im wondering if she got introuble or what. i dont know what to do. all i know is that I love heather more than anything and i trust her with everything but this one kinda gives proof that she has been telling her mom somethings. so now i dont know what to do when heather calls me. i dont know if i should break up with her or listen to what she has to say idk if i can trust her with this one. please give me some advice.

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  1. idk wat u give u but juz wanna sat if u love her tell her the truth n tell her wat her mom says  thn listen to wat she says if she is alright that what she is doing is right then juz follow her n if she doesnt know juz tell her wat is right n if u also dont understand then tell me i llhelp u


  2. its terrible when things don't work well because of race.  Why dont you try talking it over with your girlfreind in the presence of her parents, if things are volatile, please let go, everyone deserves better

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