Who should i chose ? (please help.)?

Question

I have been going out with my boyfriend for 8 months now.

and ever since last school year, my friend Devin has like,

fallen in love with me, and is always asking me out.

hes always nice to me, and always supports me

no matter what i do. he refuses to date anybody else.

the day before the last day of school, my bf got suspended for the first semester of the next school year.

in that time, i've only seen my boyfriend like, 3 or 4 times.

i'm back in school, and i'm closer to Devin than ever.

l liked him last year but i brushed it off.

My boyfriend barely ever calls me.

and he only calls me RIGHT when i feel like i'm over him.

Devin is a good person, always calls me, hangs out with ME instead of his friends, no matter how bad that makes his football rep. look,

and basically, he just plain flat out cares.

the thing is, i can't bring myself to break up with my boyfriend and i don't know why.

does it mean something that somethings pulling me back?

or should i just be with devin and try to ignore all the doubts. i'm so confused.

Also, my bf picks my friends and everything.

Answer 1

devin! him he sounds awsome and it seems that he really cares. about your boyfriend he seems like a jack pot if you know what i mean really think about it he never calls maybe only when he feels like it. i say go with the other one

Answer 2

this is hard. but when it comes down to it, you have to choose and it has to be the choice that makes you happy. you sound sad with the bf and happy with the friend. please leave him before you become afraid of the bf. sounds like he has early signs of control issues and unfortunately, they tend to end bad. good luck.