Who should pay for our wedding dinner for just 4 of us?

Question

It's just going to be us plus my sister, who is the maid of honor, and her boyfriend, whom is also our photographer.

Answer 1

You.

Answer 2

Hi.  The bride and groom are responsible for paying.  It is your wedding....so you invite and you pay, not your sister and her boyfriend.  The same goes if you decide to have any additional guests....you and your fiance pay for the food and the drinks.

Answer 3

you, unless they offer to pay in lieu of a gift

Answer 4

Well if your Sisters BF is the photographer for free maybe you guys should.

Answer 5

You and your husband should pay.

Answer 6

Who do you think should pay for it? Its YOUR dinner. You and your fiance foot the bill. Be grateful its only 4 people. We are paying for 20 people.

Answer 7

you should,

dont be complaing bout 4 people!

im paying for 70

Answer 8

the bride and groom....its only 4 people, your getting out pretty cheap!  

Answer 9

Are you asking how you tell your sister and her boyfriend that you expect them to pick up the bill for your wedding dinner? Sorry, but in the universe of etiquette there is no such animal. Wedding expenses are borne by those who have volunteered to bear them. If no one has volunteered to sponsor this dinner, then you should plan on paying for it yourself. If this is problem, consider cancelling the dinner.

Answer 10

You pay!  

Answer 11

Generally it is the brides family....

Here is a neat site that can help you

Best Wishes

http://www.weddinghelpline.com/whopays.h...

Answer 12

then the bride and groom should pay because if you hosted a wedding you would be the one paying for all your guests so in this case you should still pay for your guests :)

Answer 13

   You

Answer 14

You are the hosts so you should be paying.  Also, they are both doing you a great favor so show them a good time!