Who to test first? The *** kicking boyfriend or the humble other guy.

Question

The other guy acknowledge the babies may be his and will do testing. Should we buy a regular paternity test or a legal binding test? I was thinking a regular just to see and it's cheap, but what if it's his and later he disagrees to do a legalbinding test. My b-friend try to ignore the fact the babies may not be his and just acts as though they are. But I know when they grow up a little they will want to know why I don't look like him and so on. so I have to find out? But how? Who first? My b-friend watches Maury all the time and can tell who's not the daddy but not in his own case. It would easier if he straight out denied them. i think my boyfriend will kick my *** and I don't want to go thru all the tension. It's not about me but I'd like to do it as quietly as possible. Help??????

Answer 1

Try a regular with the other guy because like you said, it's cheaper, and then you'll be able to keep it under wraps.    Then you can go ahead and do it with your boyfriend and hopefully things won't get too out of control.   I'm sorry about your predicament.  Good luck with everything