Who would you marry ...?

Question

a) A nice traditional guy, responsible, caring, and romantic. But he wants you to only be a stay-at-home wife/mom to take care of children, clean, and cook. He will give you allowance, and you need to ask permission to decide on most things from grocery to if you can buy your kids an expensive shoes.

b) A nice easy going, respectful, independent, ambitious man who thinks women are equal with men, and actually support women to be more independent. But he doesn't want to have kids.

Answer 1

B! No hesitation! I don't want children anyway.

Answer 2

b

Answer 3

I would marry guy B because after the years go by you get even closer, so he might change his mind eventually about kids. Me and my boyfriend both felt that way about kids before, but when we were intimate it came about. If you marry guy A you can't be yourself, therefore you won't be happy. I have a little of both but I honestly don't think we'll last forever.

Answer 4

b would be the perfect husband for me!  I hate kids!  

Answer 5

Neither. I would marry someone who I am compatible with. We are on the same page about important things, such as children.

Answer 6

neither, i'll only marry my bf who have most the same views options and so on on anything important to me

we make the perfect match which is why i am with him in the first place. And he is a good mix up of your descriptions

Answer 7

A. That has been my biggest dream my whole life.  

Answer 8

Neither

I married the better part of both. He is traditional, caring, and romantic. He is easy going, respectbul, and thinks women are equal. We both wanted kids and were for one of us staying home with the children (whichever was paid less at current job). Its been both of us over the years. I was higher paid for a while and he stayed home. He got a job offer that paid much more than mine so we switched. We are expecting number 3 and I recently got a job over the summer that offered me more than his so he may be a stay at home dad again.

'we have to choose one'

No we don't I wouldn't marry either of them. Plain and simple.

Answer 9

hm, its hard.. i would say uummm dam idk

Answer 10

I'd prefer 2nd guy. I am not a child, and I will not be asking anyone permission for anything I wish to do.

Answer 11

B.

Im not crazy about kids either....  

Answer 12

def. B... I would never answer to anyone financially or ask permission to do things!

Answer 13

I'd marry B as long as I could adopt! LoL. Both kinda let downs though :/

Answer 14

Neither one.

1.  You write:  "you need to ask permission . . ."

No way.  Forget that.  He sounds like a control freak.

2.  You write:  "But he doesn't want to have kids."

Having a child was one of the best decisions I ever made.  If he doesn't want children, don't marry him.

I don't like either of your choices.  I vote for staying single.  Maybe Mr. Right will come along later.  But if you are married to Control Freak A or Childless Man B, you will never meet him.

  

  

Answer 15

A all the way!  I really wouldn't mind being a housewife, in fact now I wish I could be one, lol.  That's funny because I grew up wanting to be an independent working woman.  Now I am the breadwinner between me and my fiance and wish I could quit work, have kids, and stay home with them after we get married, but that's never going to happen.  Besides, it would never work out if I chose B, because I definately want kids.

Answer 16

C) A nice easy going, respectful, independent, ambitious man with a traditional value system who wouldn't mind if I wanted to work or stay home with the kids (anyone who knows anything about children or psych know that is best for the early years). A man who treats me as a friend, as a lover, as an equal. A man who wants kids.

Answer 17

B. Although he probably wouldn't nice and easy going because then we wouldn't get along. I'm a little high strung and if he was too laid back, his procrastination would drive my nuts!

Answer 18

neither. id marry my bf