Who you think deserve my love and affection parents or Mom and Dad?

Question

A parents who gave you for adoption because of poverty or a Mom and Dad who takes care of you when you are still 3 weeks old and brought you up with a god fearing heart.

Answer 1

Yeah, it can be both, you don't have to choose one or the other. You will know if the parents that bought you up deserve your love and affection.

As for your biological parents, that can be very complex and if you are very young you may have a very long time to understand and find things out and to figure out who they are as people and establish your relationship with them as you go. Keep your mind open to it.

Answer 2

Well in a situation like that , I would say it would be the parents who brought you up in a God fearing Home with good values and morals, but you still should love the parents that brought you into this world , they may have let you go for any number of reasons , but if they had not then you would never have met these wonderful people .

Answer 3

You're suppose to give both parents love and affection. Imagine how hard it was for your REAL parents to give you up because they couldn't afford to raise you? That's real love. You adoptive parents deserve love and affection because they raised you like their own and gave what you couldn't have. You shouldn't have had to ask this if you were brought up with a god fearing heart because you should have been taught to appreciate people.

Answer 4

all i can tell you is not hate them for what they thought was best for you. if they want to get to know you then at lest give them a chance.i am not saying by any means that you need to kick your your mom and dad out of your life they did bring you into there/your home and take care of you. and you need to talk to them about it and see what they think about it i hope this helps you i really do  

Answer 5

Both - the biological parents did the best thing they could for you - and ur mum and dad clearly loved you and gave you everything you need for a stable life.

Personally I think ur mum and dad deserve more love and affection from you - it was them that sat up with you at night when you'd had a nightmare - it was them that looked after you when u were sick - they know all the funny stories and the important ones, when u took ur first steps, how old you were when you cut ur first tooth, what your first words were.....it's them that have loved and cared for you unconditionally.............

Answer 6

My father was never there for me growing up. I hated him my whole life until recently I found out he was in prison. I wrote him a letter asking why he was never there for me and it turns out that my Mother's Mother didn't like him and refused to let him be around. (I've confirmed this with my Mom.) We are now a little rocky but in the end he is still my Father.

It sounds like your parents gave you up for your own good. I grew up in poverty though. My mom and I where on Welfare and the fact that I had nothing growing up makes me a stronger person now that I'm in my twenties. There are so many financial options now that its almost absurd to give up a child for that reason alone.

After its all said and done though your foster parents are the ones that you have known all your life. So I would consider them your parents and give them the love that they deserve. However your biological Mother and Father gave you up because they thought they where doing what was best for you and for that reason alone you shouldn't have any ill feelings toward them. You potentially have four people that love you. Some kids only have one ...or none.

Answer 7

both (your other(biological) parents did what was best for you)