Whom should be there when adoption begans?

Question

Hello, my big question is should I have been there when my grandmother started the paper work on the adoption. yes i was told the child would stay with me in the long run. I do every thing for her.(the child) no i was not there as a witness. My aunts were.

Answer 1

I'm very confused by your question...can you re-post and explain a little better?  Are you saying that your grandmother adopted your child?

Answer 2

when whatadoption begins? who is being adopted? and who is doing the adopting? this question does not make any sense please clarify

Answer 3

You might want to re-word your question. It makes no sense.

Answer 4

Are you giving up the child for adoption?

I don't understand who you are in this situation.

Answer 5

I;m not sure what your question is either.  Can you elaborate?

Answer 6

I have an adopted child and your question makes no sense. Why do you need to be there when the paper work is started? Are you doing the adopting? Starting paper work doesn't need a witness.