w***e?Used?Hurt?Pain?Help please?

Question

Ok so I sleep around a lot. Tonight I had s*x with someone and I wish I hadn't anyways. While we were having s*x he put it in my butt. It hurt so bad. No lube, not even a condom. He didn't go slow at all. When I told him to stop he thrusted deeper and said "just take it". It hurt so bad. He was pretty long and thick, yet he still slammed it all the way in. Then he put it back in my va jay jay. I didn't mind the speed and depth there but now I feel used. I am bleeding in both directions. No its not my period I had that already its been over for 3 days. What should I do. Is it wrong to feel used even though I sleep around and sometimes get paid for s*x? Why did it hurt so bad? Why am I bleeding?

Answer 1

hi... i hope you are feeling better now... i feel sad for u when i read this... yeah! some guys are fcuking ba'stard... n this guy u mention is definitely one... honestly, you should stop.. if you keep sleeping around, you'll never know, you might meet another guy who is like this guy u slept with who doesnt care and keep forcing u to take it... you'll regret it 100%... well, i just hope you stop sleeping around, that makes u a s**t/w***e...you'll never find true love, and also you don't have to feel used because I can garanty u that EVERYBODY is definitely just making use of u, im sure u know starting from day 1... this guy that u slept with might be talking about u to his friends and they will be looking forward to have s*x with u n god knows how kind or cruel are they towards u... your not their girlfriend, your nobody to them, why would they care... and that time if you cry, regret or bleed to death... nobody is gonna care... nobody is gonna accompany u to the doctor for what so ever check up... i dont know how old r u... but if u feel like that day... u should stop... dont go on torturing urself...

n Don't get panic from all the responds u get for this questions... Stuffs like what internal damage or permanent ovari damage may be the reason you are in pain and bleeding now but probably not... See a doctor ASAP... Don't be scared... Go with someone a best friend/family... You'll feel better... Don't cry... And I hope you will turn a new leaf... XD

Answer 2

hahahaha......ull be used to it..maybe ur vajjj was torn?,,,it'll stop..hahhahaa....

Answer 3

You are a GUY!!!.....People like you are the reason I Home school my kid!! Get some help, WEIRDO !!

Answer 4

Do your self a favor, tell your self how much you did not like this experience and instead of dwelling on it you will learn from this bad experience and from this exact instant, are you paying attention to me? Please do! From this moment forward you will not think about it any more! You will tell your self you are sorry you put your self though this and promise your self not to ever disrespect your self or allow for any one ! You hear me? Any one to ever do this to you again! No matter what ! Then you are going to forgive your self and you are going to move on with your life and start over again by loving your self and turning your negatives in to positives! You hear me? You are better than that! You owe it  to your self to be better to your self and not ever allow any stupid son of a ******* ***** to ever do this to you again! Never! Now move on, love your self and be  good to your self sweetie you deserve much better! You do!

Answer 5

Please go to the doctor and its really unhygenic to do what he did... put it both...

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Answer 6

stop being with all those guys.i hate this thing in guys when they consider a women just a s*x object n better not to let this get repeated again,n u r not a #####.just u made a mistake which i think u shouldn,t repeat.n mostimportantly go get a doctor.

for all those who called this girl a #####

so u think that way.then why don,t u call all the guys who vist brothels ###### too.aren,t they involved in the s*x,so better think twice before adressing someone like that.

to u dear

u r not a ##### n never think that u r one.trust me.

i m a male so i don,t know why r u bleeding n all that.i m sorry.

Answer 7

Go to the doctor, and treat yourself a bit better that what you obviously do.

Answer 8

No any one can feel used especially after an experience like that.   Don't feel cause you sleep around that your not human and can feel used.  You need to see a doctor cause he could have cause internal damage to your ovaries.  You might have hemorrhoids so you need to get to a doctor.  Another reason with him taking his p***s out and putting it in your v****a after being in you a**s might cause a bacteria infection especially with all the bleeding.  You need to go to the doctor to find out cause no one can help you here only a hospital can.  Good Luck  

Answer 9

1. It seems like you are really sick of this lifestyle but dönt know how to stop. 2. Its bleeding and sore becoz it hurt bad. 3. Go see a medical doctor. 4. Talk to a therapist.  

Answer 10

w***e

Answer 11

hey s**t where r u from

Answer 12

Firstly, Go to the doctor..in future avoid anal s*x..and if u still wanna do it.. take extra money from guys, it'll be useful for the treatment : )

Answer 13

your not a w***e you did nothing wrong idk what to say its a sad question i hope your ok

Answer 14

First thing first...  you should hae this checked out and documented by a doctor.  Get tests done for STD too, while you are at it.

You could be bleeding from 'physical' problems and internal damages.  As you did not consent to anal s*x and had asked him to stop, you would have been tensed and this could easily had caused tissue tearing.  Whether or not you get paid for this event, it wasn't right that he didn't take your words seriously.  since you were probably tense and it had not been that long after your period, it could cause further 'spotting' but not much more.  If there are more bleeding than that, it could suggest cervical problems!  Definitely have it checked out.

Most important is that...  the situation and the timing point to the fact that this is THE time to really review what you are doing to yourself, mentally, emotionally, physically.  Have a look at why you didn't follow through on saying 'no' by pushing him off, terminating the s*x etc.  Why did you just 'take it' on his saying so?

What is most important to you?  Why aren't you looking after yourself?  Why did you not discern carefully who you slept with?

It is about 'violation' and the seed of violation from others are ourselves.

You were used, so you feel used.  It is time to aks yourself why you let yourself be used!

We all do what we have to do.  But it is also our responsibilty to look after ourselves and not sacrifice one aspect of ourself for another aspect's gain.

Really...  it is time to take a pause and take a long hard look at what you are doing to yourself.  Ask yourself what dark hole in your life / your heart that you are trying to fill.  Surely, this situation is a warning light that you are going about it the wrong way.  Perhaps it is also time to get some professional help and learn to love yourself more?

Take care

Just read your additions.  Yes, in a way that was rape.  But you shouldn't have let it carried on in anyway after that.  As it is very recent, get yourself to the doctor now. Avoid the urge to 'clean & scrub up'.  Think about the rest later.  Just let the tears flow and let all the emotional pain out.  Men sometimes do this, it is about power over someone and as he couldn't do it to his 'girlfriend', he did it to you because you let him projected his problems onto you.

Go to the doctor right now.  Sort the rest out later.  If you need further help, email me.

Answer 15

dunno

Answer 16

I dont think your a w***e, maybe your just someone who likes to have fun. See how the bleeding goes and if it doesnt see a doctor. Maybe you should have protected s*x and really check out the people you are going to have s*x with, rather then just doing it. People that sleep around usually do it because they are lonely or feel unloved. Maybe you should just find yourself a long term partner and see how you do with that. Good luck with everything.

Answer 17

people. stop calling her a w***e.

you should go to a doctor you trust or some kind of health clinic and ask them.

you could also google or start a blog and ask people what they think.

good luck :]

Answer 18

if she was a man , she wouldn't be gettin called names, ppl should not judge her, every1 has slept around at sum point and 2 the ppl that avint get a life ... go the doctors hun and to be honest stop lettin men use u, coz they will always do it if u keep lettin them ur worth more, hope u will b ok

Answer 19

cuz u r a w***e  

Answer 20

you are bleeding because he tore you up. he may have damaged you permanently. you should really go and see a doctor, and stop sleeping around so much. also, that could be considered as rape, and he could be reported to the police.