Whos right, me or her?

Question

Ok, so I have this friend, well ex friend, that's best friend hates me. Her best friend talks c**p about me and she just sits there and laughs. She doesn't even stick up for me! Her friend calls me stupid, ugly, etc. So I called her and said " I don't need a friend that laughs when people talk c**p about me," and shes just like " Ok, and? well bye." That's what got me pissed. Shes so bad to me, and all I've done is be good to her. Her best friend is just jealous that me and her were friends. I told her my deepest secrets, but you know what? I don't care! She can go tell her little best friend, what do I care? Who do you think is right me or her? I don't need a friend that laughs when people talk c**p about me and doesn't stand up for me. She doesn't even care if we are friends or not!

Answer 1

stupid teenage drama -.-

1st of all it doesnt matter who is "right or wrong"

what matters is who is a good friend

i would say ignore her  

Answer 2

well i think that you shouldn't be asking anyone because this is not our problem and we don't know the situation as well as you do. so maybe you should try telling a adult or teacher or maybe if you would be brave you could try talking to this girls mother or maybe if your brave try talking to  a principal or counselor  usually they help without anyone and they can get a private talk with them and then you can all talk together.  

Answer 3

You did the right thing kid...you stuck up for yourself and thats what everyone in life should do. Hope this helped.  

Answer 4

the same kind of thing happened to me. i was bestfriends wit htis girl for 5 years and then she started becomming friends with this one girls who was always talking c r a p bout me and other people. i eventually stopped talking to my "friend". i think you are right. you should be friends with someone that would listen when someone talks about you in a bad way.

Answer 5

that happened to me before..

and she treated me horrible and i said you know what? you dont deserve a friend like me and i went away..

and her little "friend" ditched her..

what goes around comes around

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Answer 6

me.

Answer 7

Definitely you, no doubt about it in this particular instance.

Answer 8

doesnt sound like she was ever a real friend

Answer 9

u

Answer 10

that is wrong and i used to be a situation almost like that only worse. The two that would talk c**p were BOTH my friends! the one that would always start it used to say things about how everyone will always love her and not me and my other friend would agree because she wanted to be on the popular girl's side. after a while the girl that would always talk c**p about me starting talking to me about my other friend too! in the end we ditched her because no one needs a friend like her.

so yeah ur right

Answer 11

It doesn't sound like the person you think is your friend, is your friend. She doesn't care about you or if someone is hurting you. Get away from them and find nice girls who cherish your friendship.

Answer 12

man ur right haha u go

Answer 13

Hun, YOU, ARE RIGHT!

i know its going to be hard without her eventually,

but its not worth it. Friends that are like that

aren't worth it, and just need to go.

if someone else wants to deal with it, then okay,

they can.

but, you? you shouldn't have to worry about a friend

talking about you and laughing at you behind your back.

i've experianced this, and shes barely even my friend.

we just say hi in the halls.

you gotta prove to yourself that what stupid people

say doesn't matter, and that they need to be outta your life,

and FAST!

Answer 14

Omg!!!!! soooo totally gutted for you

you said this was a REAL problem???

Hahahahah grow up "animal lover" hahaha

ur such a wet blanket

maybe she just doesn't wanna be friends with some wierdo

Answer 15

u best off without her hun,she seems like a sad pathetic looser,show her that u dont give a d**n and 4get them both they boths sound jeal of u 2 mex

Answer 16

i dont think anyone is gonna say she is right.. and i think u know u r. just forget her she doesnt deserve to b your friend

Answer 17

Personally I'd say you're right.  But you gotta forget her, and move on.  Otherwise, you're just going to dwell on it.  That's giving her more attention than she deserves.

Answer 18

looks like your really hurt =(

i think you're right but don't forget your friend's point of view

Answer 19

i think you should talk it over with her. and yeah if shes still like no. just say i dont need u in my life. becauze i can find other people better tehn you. or somethign liek that

Answer 20

She seems like she is to incucre to stand up for you and that if she does she will be made fun of so you are right but it doen't make you a better person to be mean to her so just igone her. and mabey she won't anymore