Whos right? am i really wrong?

Question

okay if theres one thing that i really hate is the smell of cigarette [idk if thats how u spell it and i honestly dont care how u spell it] smoke it hburns my throat and i jus think its nasty. and my mom always smokes in the house and im always fighing with her cause i hate it it smells horrible! i cant stand it i hate that smell. and my mom was coughing and i was like oh hav another cigarette [sarcastically] and shes like shut up its not from smoking [i think shes in denial or whatever] and thats wehre the fight started about her smoking in the house and i hate it. and my ddad [he dont smoke tho] walked out and started yelling at me!!! i dont see how i am wrong, he like i have to respect her! well im a person too she should respect me!!! i cant stand the smell of smoke! cant she just walk outside like is it really that hard?

Answer 1

iagree  need talk somebody

Answer 2

Yes you are wrong it doesnt matter what your parents do you should always respect them no matter what they do.

Answer 3

yes you need to respect her but she needs to take care of you and Your health as well! and her Coughing IS from cigarettes she needs to get out of Denial  

Answer 4

I think smoking around children is terrible!  I never allow my DH to smoke in the house.  Yes it was big battle to get him to do it.  You should respect your mother though.  Tell her, in a sincere and non-mouthy way, about your concerns for your health and hers.  Quitting a smoking addiction is incredibly hard.  I watched my DH have insomnia, night chills and sweats when he tried to quit.  I felt so sorry for him.  Try to be sensitive to your mom and her struggle with this.

Answer 5

you are really wrong

you are the child and owe your parents respect and obedience

When your mother smokes, leave the room or if you want to be a smart *** wear an face mask

Answer 6

OK ur rents own the house and while u live there u should  do what they want. if u  don't like it to bad your not the head of the house so shut up and accept it. oh and don't use sarcasm its not something that's going to help if anything its going to make things worse and get your mom pissed at you

Answer 7

idk - I do what I want in my house - but I do respect my sons space (he too doesn't smoke) I don't smoke in his room or upstairs at all for that matter and I don't smoke in the kitchen- I also dump my ashtrays and spray freshener.

However my son is nine - if he were lets say 16 - I'd tell him to get the fk out if he doesn't like what i do where I pay bills for his little funky tail to have a rough over his head, food in his mouth and amongst other things that i do for him.

You are probably the reason why your mother smokes..

Leave her be you are wrong - Move out I say

Answer 8

You need to respect your mom, which it sounds like you're not.  However, I think your family needs to sit down and have a talk.  Explain to your mom that by smoking, she is not only endangering her life, but the lives of you, your dad, and anyone else who lives there, by exposing them to second hand smoke.  Explain to her that you love her, and want her to be around to see you on your wedding day, to see the birth of her grandchildren, and all of the other things the future will bring.  If she insists that she has to smoke, then see if you can work on a specific place where she can go to smoke, so that it's not exposing the rest of you.  Hopefully she will see the light.

Answer 9

Smokers really can't understand the distaste for smoke a non smoker feels. When I use to smoke 20 years ago, I did not feel that anyone could be bothered by it even though some non smoking friends complained.  

Answer 10

I agree with you. And if you inhale that smoke than it is just as bad as if you were smoking because you are getting second hand smoke.  

Answer 11

Smoking around kids IS dangerous and irresponsible.

However, it still is your parents house, and their hard earned money keeping you in it.

Even if you don't like what they're doing...you kind of have to deal with it for now.

Just think...once you grow up and move out, whenever your mom comes over to YOUR place, you can politely ask her to step outside to have her cigarette and there really isn't alot she can say about it.

Just try to be nice and respect your mom for now.  

Answer 12

i agree,the smell of ciggarettes is disgusting i cant stand it either! i have a friend who smokes and i asked her nicely not to smoke around me and now she stopped. i think you need to have a serious and mature talk with your mom about seriousness of her smoking and hopefully she will care enough to stop.