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Why Am I Made Fun Of?

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I have alot of friends, except I'm not sure if they're all my real friends. I like to read and write stories or play guitar. So basically I'm not a person who loves going to parties or spending alot of time outside. When I tell my friends that I'm busy reading or playing guitar they all laugh. Is this bad? Should I stop playing guitar or writing and reading to hang out with them?

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maybe you need to find friends that share similar interests...
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Dont risk your life on them and tell them seriously to quit laughing, snap it if you can, that will shut them up
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Hi.

Be true to yourself. The only person in life that will truly make you happyis you. Be happy with yourself and enjoy the things that you enjoy. That bring bring you real innerpeace and true happiness. Your friends see something in you that they dont see in themselves. stay cool the way you are.
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Just do what you want to do.

Friends don't laugh at something you do.
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no, they're jealous.

cause a guy playing a guitar is hot and reading and writing will help you get into a college. they want you to turn out like them

so ignore them
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No way! doing the things that you love is much etter than giving into peer presure and going to parties! The are lots of reasons that people ay make fun of you: Maybe they want to make themselves feel better. Maybe they are jelous of you for some reason. Maybe they think that you are too different and your good habits make them look bad. Maybe you are an easy target. Just remember to use your judgement and keep loving .

Keep smiling!
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nooo!!!! do what ur good at what you like and follow your dreams no matter WHAT other people say!!!

if your friends laugh at you for that, it just means your better than them!!

stay at what your good at
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Never! You do what you want to do and when you want to do it. Your friends are not cool by laughing at what you do or like to do.

Learn and practice more and more, I am sure you will rock playing that guitar, and then, THEY will need call you to play or sing at their reunions, you will be the center of attention.....

But don't care about them, nobody tells you what to do. At least you are not waisting your time in something unreal.

Good for you!

Who knows? maybe you will play in a famous band one day!!
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You have been given a gift, play, understand and enjoy what you have been given. Your Friends only laugh because they havn't found what they have yet...

Carry on you will see them one by one find their goal/ blessing

You have found yours Hang on to it!

God Bless
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No. It sounds like you are a really awesome person! If there people don't except you for who you are then that is their problem. I had that happen to me to. I didn't fit in with all the popular people, or the jocks, or even the nerds. But in the end you are one of the most fun and enjoyable people to be around. Trust me.
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if they are really your friends, then they should have a little respect for your hobbies and likings!
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I love to write stories and be alone and just listen to music a lot of them time, and i have friends. I am usually invited to parties and things like that, but i don't go. I personally don't enjoy hanging around drunk kids that are "off balance". Please do not stop writing; i write as much as i can. Don't listen to other people who make fun of you. They just don't relize how much writing and playing the guitar makes you happy. I also have many friends, but i have one "true" friend, who i can always count on, but then again; you're your own person, and you don't need anyone else to be happy. be happy the way your are, and if your friends don't like you for the EXCAT what that you are.....are they really your friend?
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Well, if you want friends you need to invest time and effort as well. Which means basically you need to spend time with them, listen to them, do things with them, sports, hanging out and listen to music, discuss stuff. If you're rather alone and play guitar and write ( and there is nothing wrong with that ) you need to understand that eventually friends will stay away since they will think you have no interest in being friends. Up to you.
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You have a life. Apparently they don't. Do what interests you. Don't sell out to nobodys
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no don't stop because if you do your friends might think that they have control over you and you are going to get to the point you'll be unhappy because you aren't doing what you like you are just pleasing your friends
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NO!!!! Don't stop doing the things you are passionate about! You will find later in life that doing what inspires you will take you further and make you happier than any party could ever do! I don't doubt that they are your friends, but maybe you should also find people who enjoy doing the things you do! join a band, or join an online writing group. Go to a local bookstore where they have fliers for reading or writing groups. You may find that the friends you make there that you have things in common with, are truly the friends who will support you and your ideas, and are more lasting than those you have now!
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Noo! Do what makes you happy! What you do is completely normal. I much well prefer to do that then go to parties also.
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Just because your friends make fun of you, you shouldn't stop doing what you love just because they laugh. If they make you feel uncomfortable, tell them, and say I'm busy, but maybe later, and continue what you're doing. If they laugh at you, they're not really your friends...are they now?
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