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Why Can't I Climax? What Am I Doing Wrong?

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I have beengoing out with a incediblely hot girl for about a month now, but when we have s*x, i can't climax. I have to m********e for like 20 minutes after she is done to climax. What is wrong with me, what can I do to fix it, and has this happened to anyone else?

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  1. hmm... ya it happens to me, and don't u think 1 month is kinda to soon, my guess is that ur not comfortable with her yet, just take it easy, get her to give u hand jobs and blow jobs,  


  2. You're getting too excited too quickly and this causes premature ejaculation or no ejaculation at all. Maybe you feel inferior to her and this is what is causing it. You might be trying to impress her and in the process you losing your mojo. Try going on a date or two without s*x and just do everything but that even if it means her having a climax and you not having one. Then you will get more comfortable with her and one thing will leader to another-success.

  3. I was just reading this take a look, maybe you have a strong PC (Pubococcygeus) muscle

    http://ezinearticles.com/?How-To-Perform...


  4. work at it.

  5. This problem is common and is usually due to tension/anxiety about performance. Relaxation is the key to hot s*x, and foreplay and fun figure prominently in the success of your "venture". Forget about the climax for now. You already know how to climax on your own. Get familiar with what your hot friend likes to do sexually. She may have problems getting relaxed too. Girls usually appreciate lots of foreplay and they worry about not climaxing too.

    There is probably nothing "wrong' with you. Get familiar with books on s*x . A good one that you can still find is The Joy of s*x by Alex Comfort.

    Exploring each others bodies for erotic area and stimulating these areas for various periods before concentrating on the obvious spots helps tremendously.  

  6. Most likely, honestly, she is not tight enough. :-/ sorry to have to say it -- but I've known that to happen to friends and that is why.

    Kind thoughts,

    Hermes
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