Why Cant I Feel Love Anymore?

Question

It has been 2 years since i have felt it and every girlfriend i have been with, i just cant fall, i have had bad break ups!

Help!

Answer 1

"Love" DOES NOT HURT!!!!!!!!!   Relationships ending hurt,  grieving hurts, dreams ending hurt, unmet expectations hurt but love does not!!!!!!!!   It may be time to examine your expectations about relationships.  If you look to other people to "fill a void", to make you feel happy or whole, you will invariably be disappointed. Contrary to popular myth, no one else can make you happy but YOU.  No other person can meet all of our needs.  As Hilary said, "it takes a village".  We are social creatures who thrive on human interaction of all types.  You are "human" too so this applies to you.  

You may not feel love "today" but this does not mean you never will again.  When you can honestly say that the well being of the person you love is as important as your own, then you are closer to what I feel is true "love".  We celebrate the accomplishments of those we love with joy. Sometimes moving on is an accomplishment of those we love and while we may feel sad, we must let go.  People make choices for themselves which have NOTHING to do with us.  Be patient. Until you get another chance to "love" someone, learn to love yourself. Do things that you like to do, take care of yourself, eat well, exercise, rest.  Do your job, whether its school, in the workforce or both, to the best of your ability and feel that sense of satisfaction by the job well done. Hang in there.

Answer 2

Have you been hurt deeply because of love??

That would explain alot.

Answer 3

you answerd ur own question.. u had bad break ups.. look im goin thru sumthin rite now wit a gurl that jus wants 2 be friends so i understand how u feel.. its all in ur head .. just remember that all gurls arnt the same and u have 2 find the one for u.. wen u find her .. dont let her go!

Answer 4

i dont feel love anymore either. i think that everytime i've loved someone i always got burned in the end. so i guess i automatically put up a wall so that i dont get hurt again.  love hurts- and thats not a good feeling

Answer 5

Examine your habits, are they keeping you from filling the vast need, and capacity for love?

Answer 6

Nothing ever happens when you are looking for it. Let go, as hard as it may be, and let love seek you out. One more thing try not to base each relationship one the other. Make each person their own and not a glorified expectation.

Answer 7

cuz ur searching for it... let it come to you. just relax, take it easy. listen to this song MIKA - RELAX.... it'll sort you right out