Why Do I Have To Force Myself To Ejaculate?

Question

Am not jokeing, when am with a girl i can go all night BUT i just cant come with out me having to force myself. Sometimes when i want to come am still going for ages later cos i just cant do it straight away. Its good i suppose that i can last a long time but do i have a problem that i just cant come and if i want to come i have to really force myself?

Answer 1

Relax.

While I'm sure that your partner(s) have no complaints with the long sessions, you'd like to finish up. It's a case of nerves. As long as you know that you can ejaculate (you can, correct?) then we know it's not physical. If you are using a condom during s*x, it could be that you aren't used to the difference in stimulation. Try to mastubate while using a condom, at least until you get the feel for it.

Also, maybe suggest to your partner a mutual masturbation session (ah, high school memories) where you so each other what makes you feel good. No touching, just watching your partner. This will help each of you learn and also help you get over the roadblock of having an o****m in front of someone.

After that try different positions. I know guys who could go all night in certain positions, but are done in a minute in other positions. That's the beauty of s*x, keep trying until you get it right for you.

I hope this helps!

Answer 2

I had the same problem, may be the same cause or something else.

In my case, the nerve damage from circumcision decreased my penile sensitivity much more than the average, resulting in my inability to reach o****m in normal s*x.    

It took me years to finally discover the cause of the problem, and I finally found out abour f******n restoration.    Restoring my f******n using a device called the TLC Tugger has increased my sensitivity and also increased the intensity of orgasms.

s*x is no longer a "chore," but a real pleasure.

Not only does it make you feel inadequate, but your partner(s) sometimes feel that they are failing in some way to make you reach o****m.     This is a serious problem for both parties.

Perhaps it's something else with you, I can only tell you what my problem was and how I resolved it.     There are also other causes, such as a psychological block, because you may unconsciously fear making the girl pregnant, or other physical causes.

I could always reach o****m masturbating, but even that took a lot of stimulation--much more than average.

All I can say is that f******n restoration changed my life, and it's not easy or quick, it takes grim determination and several years to accomplish.    My sensitivity started to increase, however, within about three months of starting.

Good luck to you.

Answer 3

just let it come !!! and i am circumcised and no problems.

Answer 4

I don't think that is too much of a problem.  I doubt the girls will complain.

Keep working on it tho.

Answer 5

No offence mate, but you need to go with a girl who has more skills. A girl who knows what to do in that situation.

Answer 6

there's more than one way to do it you know different positions put different pressures on your p***s and that might work

Answer 7

i think your problem stems from a servere case of 'closetous homosexous'. have you tried thinking of your best male friend during intercourse?

Answer 8

no problem

Answer 9

maybe you just need to relax a bit more and it might come a bit more easily!