Why Do Lads Use girls for s*x? when the girls are generally nice ?

Question

why somebody please tell me! im a nice girl but i seem to be taken for a ride all the time it gets me down

Answer 1

Do not get me wrong but most women wear clothes that bring it on them selfs, or the way they talk and act around men bring it on them selfs. They talk very openly with guys they hardly know about s*x and what they like and do not like in the way of s*x. They wear clothes that expose most of their breast, wear shirt that just cover their butt and if they bend over you know what kind of panties if any they are wearing. You expect us  not  to react. If this sounds like a lecture it is not intended that way. If a woman dresses and talks respectable  then she will more than likely be treated like a woman until she give the guy the green light to treat her differently. I hope this helps answer your question.

Answer 2

NOT WITH ME THEY DON'T!!!!! dammm straight!!!!!

Answer 3

Depends on whrre you live. In western countries, the culture is if you dont have a girlfriend or gotten laid, you get laughed at and you may feel left out. In Asian countries asian women prefers s*x after marriage so the men live with that. I would never use a girl for s*x because its just uncool.

Answer 4

Never give it up unless you are ready and comfortable to. Guys tend to get a thrill off being able to get into the pants of a nice girl porbably because of their whole "innocent schoolgirl" fantasy lodged in the back of their unconscious minds. One thing to remember is that most guys talk A LOT about girls they have s*x with. If you dated a guy and he just wanted to be with you just for the s*x, you should probably avoid his friends.

Honestly, it sounds like you are trying to seek out a meaningful relationship. If this is the case, then try being a little patient and work on establishing a relationship before diving into sexual intercourse. You'll greatly increase your chances of finding a great guy with a kind heart because most guys who want to get into your pants will get too impatient and reveal their true nature during the relationship building process.

Answer 5

men think about s*x all the time, im in a relationship and would do it several times a day if i could. and when single would still do it several times a day if i could. its not a matter of using girls its just most men have s*x on the brain.!

Answer 6

Errrr........could be you make the wrong choice of guys, again and again and again !!!!

Answer 7

I'd like to know that aswel... It doesnt make sense to me at all.

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Answer 8

becasue it makes these guys look cool infornt of their guy friends!

Answer 9

Talk about generalising - not all blokes are like that, and believe me when I say that there are just as many women treating men badly, as men treating women badly.  If you continue to get used by blokes, sooner or later you have to think that you are letting it happen.

Answer 10

It just depends on how you come off. if the guy thinks your easy he will just try and get in your pants. don't let your self get sweet talked by these self proclaimed "players"

Answer 11

Say no then

Answer 12

haha a ride like the hump and dump ?

well my only advice for you is.....

DONT BE SOO GOD*DA*MN EASY! SL*UT

Answer 13

Oh they are not so generally nice, maybe in the 50's, not now

Answer 14

Well, as an answer for both Milly and Louise, guys, once past a certain age, tend to think more with their p***s than their brains, and unfortunately, for a lot of them, the be all and end all of their existence is getting their way inside a girls pants, then her v****a.

Once they have done that, especially if it involves taking the girl's virginity, the girl goes down as another notch on the bed post, so to speak.

This is not something new, it's gone on since time began, as a way to try and ensure the continuation of the species.

However, not all guys are the same, some do actually have decent qualities, like respect for the girl, and are honest with them, they have a personality, and a  sense of humor that the girl finds appealing, and see her as a person, no matter what shape or body size, colour ethnicity or race.

Judge people as you personally find them, not on a set idea, because just as you girls say this about guys, some guys feel exactly the same about the behavior of some girls.

Mike t.

Answer 15

it nature's law otherwise there would not been difference i mean no male or female................

Answer 16

get some payback, do the same to some guy haha

or just let them know when they're getting into the relationship what you've been through and test them to see if they're really genuine

now answer my question

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Answer 17

Guys want s*x 24/7. Its nature of the beast really. It also varies on whats going on in the guys life at the time. He could just want flings for now because he has too much going on or he went threw a break up and is trying to fill a void threw s*x.  Some are just s*x addicts! We can be jerks and we know it but we do eventually change and want one good girl to do everything with. It's just a process of elimination and growing up.  

Answer 18

don't repress yourself sexually... if you act like a "guy" this wont seem as such a big issue. m********e and watch p**n, check out guys and later think about them... look around this is a new place to find your sexuality without thinking you are giving something up or getting used... remember you get something out of it 2. the guys worth dating wouldn't make you feel used or degraded, they would make you feel really really goooood. and that is it. go with the flow, girls over Annalise

Answer 19

Swings and roundabouts babe ladies are no angels.

Answer 20

Not all guys are like that, but it is up to the girl to say no also, she is allowed to! I think it all stems back to the parents not teaching the real meaning of love and s*x. It should be kept sacred and it is not which is sad. Parents should teach their kids that others are not to be used and seen as s*x objects. Have respect for yourself and just say no!

Answer 21

it is a bit of a generalisation, but from past experience pretty much every guy has been like that!

Answer 22

Firstly, not all guys 'use' girls for s*x. Yes, there may be a large amount of guys who do, but we aren't all like that...

Secondly, I'm not exactly sure.. s*x addictions can be problems for men? Then again, there are those guys who just want a fun time, nothing else. I can see how it would frustrate you.. It's not something i agree with either..

Necro

Answer 23

You are with the wrong guys... nice guys don't just use you for s*x, but want to be with you.  Of course, the s*x is really nice too!

Answer 24

You didn't say they raped you, so they must've coaxed you into doing it by acting like exactly the kind of man you want. You can't change men, but you can change the type of men you choose. Maybe you should start to base your choice on guys on different factors.

Answer 25

It's like the toilet, they gotta go somewhere.  Blunt, but it true.  Not your fault that how the boys are.

Answer 26

just say no