Why Does My Big Sister Hate Me ?

Question

Okay My Sister Hates Me, Im 15 (im a guy) And Shes 16 I Dont Even Know What Caused Her To Hate Me. Its Like Everytime I Say "Hi" To Her She Just Doesn't Speak To Me Iv Not Done Anything Wrong.. So The Other Night I Asked Her :-

(Me) Why Do U Hate Me ?

(Sister) I Dont Hate You I Just Really Dislike You

She Wont Say Why She Doesnt Like Me

Is That Normal

Answer 1

dont worry about it. teenage girls are very moody at this stage. and deep down, she really loves and cares about you. its just, shes probably going through a lot of things right now: puberty, boys, break ups, dramas etc. so she takes it out on the ones she loves, like you. so just wait for the phase to pass, and things will get back to normal ;D and if its really bothering you, tell her that you feel bad that she doesnt like you and you want to have a bond with her, and she'll understandd.

hope i helped - natalie <3

Answer 2

you're just at an age where everything bothers her, whatch any teen movie, it's not you.  In a year or two things will change.  Just be there if she needs you and she'll come around eventually.

Answer 3

I think this is just a phase that a lot of younger teenagers go through. my sister and I are 1 year apart and when we were younger we were inseperable and when we were teenagers we were the worst enemies. I would sit her down and tell her that this really bothers you. Try getting your parents involved with the conversation. Or just let this blow over.. she'll come around.

Answer 4

Do something nice for her to help her out in some way and I bet she will act a lot nicer to you. Maybe it will help to build on your relationship.

Answer 5

Sisters and brothers...HA. I think in my opinion its normal for bigger siblings to be annoyed by their smaller siblings because they think they're all matured and too old for younger ones.

Answer 6

Of course it's normal.

You two are brother and sister.

Answer 7

You guys are really close in age. She probably just doesn't want to have you in her buisness. It's really normal, and when you aren't living together you'll be a lot better friends! Good Luck, you could try doing something for her, too.

Answer 8

usually yeah, sisters are annoying. It gets better when you don't live with them  

Answer 9

sisters are the worst. ignore her shes proply on her period or sumting

Answer 10

yes me and my sister fall out all the time. But if you havent done anything wrong then jst wait till she talks to you first. dont annoy her or keep on pestering her Hopefully she will come round. Dont worry about it.

Answer 11

man you take over all the privileges,

she enjoy in the first year.

what else you wanna.  

love?

Answer 12

i have the sam problem i trie to be nice but she comes back and be's a *****!!! i either ignore her or don't talk at all to her.

Answer 13

unless you really get on her nerves or did something wrong and just didn't relized it yet I don't know any other reason to why she would hate you

Answer 14

Yeah, that's kind of normal.  Because you two are so close in age, she may feel a little competitive with you.  Do your parents favor you?  I know I feel a little like that with my little bro, but he is seven years younger than me.  I mainly think it is an age thing.  As the two of you get older, you should become closer.  Just continue being yourself and treating her like you want to be treated and one day she will realize what a cool little bro she has.

Answer 15

She's probably having guy problems and hates that you are a guy.

Answer 16

She's probably on her period.  

Answer 17

look..it probably has nothing to do with you.

teenage girls can sometimes have really complicated lives..

they go through phases of not likeing people..or trying to shut their family out.

don't sweat it,just try and watch her and when she's in a pretty good mood..

aproach her about.

she doesn't hate you.

she's a 16 year old girl.that's it.

hope i helped.

good luck

xoxo~

feriell

Answer 18

"who needs enemies when you have family"

does that answer your question?

Answer 19

go to family concelling if it's affecting you that much

Answer 20

sometimes it is normal for an older sibling to show dislike

deep down she probcares about you

but maybe she has a lot on her mind and often neglects the people she cares about

sit down with her and ask her if she's ok and if u can do anything to help dissolve the tension between u two

if she does not know maybe ask her to list some things she might not like such as your habits or when u guys do stuff together

good luck, dun be too hard on urself

Answer 21

Yeah, that's pretty normal. Maybe she's just PMSing badly. Try giving her some more space and pretty soon, she'll want to talk to you again.

Answer 22

you probably ratted her out on something and forgot about it and she did not