Why Doesn't He Appreciate Me?How Would You Interpret This?

Question

A guy that you knew before that was:

*Your Best Friend

* Everyone Said He Liked You

*Says to your friend He Hates You 100% and only wants to hear negative comments made about him coming from you "hating someone that hates you"(first he says he doesnt hate you he just doesnt care about you then he says he wants you to hate him)

*Talks about you even when no one brings you up.

Obviously im asking because I care.Or else there would be no point to the question.Plz any answers would help.Any input.

Could you please include your age.Thanks.

14 hours ago - 3 days left to answer.

Additional Details

14 hours ago

@ Skye: He's not my bestfriend anymore. He went bellistic after finding out that i knew he liked me.He started denying it and never talked to me again.He doesn't want to talk to me..he doesnt have enough nerve.

13 hours ago

@ Sunny: No actually i dont have the upper hand. I'm the one thats asking a question on here of why he is not talking to me lol.Do you honestly think i have the upper hand?I love this guy but i dont think talking to him is going to cut it. This is what he said to my friend. "Even if she is apologizing, thats too bad because I'm the type that doesn't forgive"

Answer 1

He chooses to do these things, but probably is afraid of something. I'm assuming that he's afraid of developing a relationship with you. As to why, that's the mystery, right? There maybe something going on in his life that no one knows about.

If he talks about you with no one else bringing it up, he really is trying to deny it - strongly, if I may add. But him liking you isn't definite. It's nice that you tried talking to him, but the real strength/courage that he needs is something he has to find in/for himself. Whether he wants to do something about it is his choice.

For now, try to ignore the change. (If he doesn't want to talk to you, fine).

15 yrs.

Answer 2

He appears to be having a tantrum over nothing. You found out he liked you, and he's enraged? That makes no sense. Whatever he's saying now is tantrum-talk and meaningless garbage.

As long as he's behaving this way, just avoid him and act as though nothing is wrong and there's no drama. When he behaves more like a gentleman, you can start giving him a little attention.

Tell your friends that you don't want to hear anything he says behind your back, because it is not helpful to you. They can keep it to themselves from now on.

Answer 3

My answer to your ? is that . He obviously thinks your conceded and hates that you knew he liked you before he announced it. Guys don't like it some times when they think a girl is full of herself. It makes them hate the fact they even had any feelings. Then they do what this guy is doing making you look bad and feel sad..

30Year Old Woman

Florida