Why I'm I looked at as inferior?

Question

Why I'm I looked at as inferior?

I feel pressured into getting a girlfriend (because all my other straight male friends have one), and I'm the only guy that doesn't have a girlfriend. Its not that I can't get a girlfriend...its just that I don't want one...I'm bi but I lean more to guys than anything. People think I'm g*y because I'm the only one without a girlfriend (which I do like guys) but that shouldn't matter because their judging based on stereotypes and generalizations. I know plenty of straight guys who's not so into girls 24/7. Even though some people know I'm bisexual...but they still don't accept me (as they say they do), because the fact that I can't be a bisexual guy by bringing my boyfriend around and talking about g*y stuff in conversations. My uncle and aunts look at me lessor than other male guys in the family...simply because I don't live up to the stereotypes by having a girlfriend all the time...being into sports 24/7 getting drunk...etc..Uh maybe it is normal to be straight and for a guy to date girls only...it looks good any ways to see a a cute girl and a guy together rather than two guys. But I still don't really get it...why I'm I looked at as inferior when I'm just like everyone else?

Answer 1

You are not in any way inferior. The REALLY worrying thing about your family is this being into sports 24/7 thing if you ask me. Stuff your Uncles and Aunts. Do your own thing. Be your own person. It's no one else's business who you are into. You wouldn't be looked on as inferior in my family and I'm clearly old enough to be your nana.  

Answer 2

do whatever makes you happy. s***w the rest.

Answer 3

don't be pressured. go clubs more often and bang more girls. you will feel better

Answer 4

It sounds to me like you are putting too much emphasis on the ridiculously unrealistic perceptions and desires of others. Having a boyfriend or a girlfriend is NOT a status symbol. Its NOT a rite of passage. You date someone because you have a romantic interest in them. Since you're bi, I suggest that you simply try not to focus on the genders of the people you date. When you meet an interesting person, ask them out.

If the expectations of all these people are weighing so heavily on you, then you need to realize that these expectations are ignorant and puerile. Next time they try to lay some guilt trip on you, tell them that your dating life is none of their concern. If they persist, ignore them with extreme prejudice. Never let others run your life for their own satisfaction.