Why I am Like this? the things I used to love I hate them suddenly?

Question

I am a boy who all time trying to get something passionately and then after getting that become useless in my life why? it's like if I love someone and something then I will try to get that as hard as possible but when I have it then I don't think abut it and it become useless in my life and goal, what to do? why I am like this please help me I dont want to be like this

Answer 1

thats how everyone is. here's an example. i used to beg for a wii so much till i got one then a played wit a for a year or 2 and now thanks to how much i "care" for it the wire for the sensor bar is cut. your perfectly fine dont worry and people change.their intrests and all that it changes its alright

Answer 2

life has it's ups and downs.You just have to go along with it or have a friend by your side to help.Usually there should at least be ONE person who'll help you out.Like me for instance:i was suicidal and ALMOST emo once but a friend helped me get back up.So now i'm super and hanging onto life.So you just do your best,get some support,find something that'll help you relax,and enjoy the ride!

"Live all you can,it's a mistake not to.It doesn't so much matter what you do in particular,so long as you have your life.If you haven't had that what have you had?"-Henry James

Answer 3

You sound like a typical 12 or 13 year old.

You'll grow out of it.

Answer 4

Probably it is not wrong, if you are like this. When you see something from far away, you may think you would be happy having it, but when you got it you realize that it wasn´t as great as you thought or that it wasn´t the thing which is missing for your happiness.

Look around and inside your heart. Don´t concentrate on one thing and split your forces. You need more then only one thing to feel good: for example: you need money, you need love, you need friends, you need health, you need to learn constantly.

Have you noticed that all these different things may disturb each other? You need a little of this and a little of that, (if your girlfriend wants you to have time only for her, you have to explain that you need freedom and time for your friends, for example, or if you only earn money without having a friend, you feel lonely in the evenings) There is nothing which can make you happy alone, you always need a balanced mixture.

And during your life your goals have to change. That´s normal, because you change as a person during your development, and you make a lot of new experiences.

Don´t be afraid of looking every day on your life, your feelings, your goals, they change every day a little, during your way to them, you have to be flexible and listen to the voice inside your heart and probably change the direction of your way a soon as possible, then you won´t be so dissapointed having reached something you don´t want anymore.

Good luck!

Answer 5

Dont be so down hearted! Thats not a bad way to be! At least you have the energy and brain power to aim for something and achieve it, alot of people dont have the same drive. Maybe you're not challenging yourself enough. Branch out and try something completely different, if nothing else it will teach you to appreciate what you've already achieved.  

Answer 6

You enjoy the thrill of the chase but once you have got what it is you were after it loses its appeal.

The hunter gatherer gene is very prevalent in males but if you don't mind me saying Omar you sound quite spoilt.  Things come easy to you.  If you really want to cure this, go and offer your services helping the less fortunate.  They have so little money and resources that you are likely to value what you have much much more.

Report back next week,