Why......I dont understand??? = S?

Question

im 15, 16 in november and ive never had a boyfriend, ive been asked out but ive never been interested in them, i dont no what to do...

Help me!!! Advice??

Answer 1

You're still very young! Even if your peers are dating or have been for a while, it does not mean you necessarily have to, or even want to. Cliche as it sounds, it's true that everyone develops at a different time. At your age, most people are just exploring the dating world, and discovering their sexuality.

If you are concerned that your lack of interest in dating boys is because you're not straight, I would say that it is still very early to say. Many people, especially girls, do not fully discover their sexual orientation until they are 18,19, even in their 20s.

It sounds like at the moment you aren't interested in boys, but you're not attracted to girls either. Most likely you are just not yet at the stage in your life where you want to be in that sort of relationship. The best thing to do is just give it time; naturally you will begin to be attracted to others and want to date them.

Don't feel pressured to date! It shouldn't be because you feel you have to or are expected to, follow your instincts; if at the moment you don't feel the desire to date, then let it be. You are perfectly normal!