Why I felt down on my anniversary..?

Question

yesterday was my 18 yrs anniversary, and hubby normally bought me some roses and take me out for dinner for many yrs... but this yr , he didn't get me anything, and we went to relatives party.as he wished....he told me, we can celebrated other day...and no s*x at night..... what do u think..? does he change..? you opinion plz.. thks.

one thing has been changed for this yr., I make more money than he does now.. is it the reasons..?

Answer 1

At least he remembered.   Did you at least have a good time at the party?

You can make it up.

Answer 2

First, Happy Anniversary.

Second, may I ask you what did you get for hubby on your anniversary?

were you in need for one more quicky?

try to avoid discussing money matters with him since you are making more money than him.

may be he was supporting you financially in the past, were this a reason to change your feelings towards him?

remember always that he is your man and the father of the kids.

happy anniversary again.  

Answer 3

who knows...men are weird and their pride is easily hurt. he may figure that you could buy whatever you wanted and it was no need in him doing it. you are just going to have to have a heart to heart talk with him and ind out where his head is. you need to tell how this made you feel or it will just fester and cause you to get your feelings hurt over the smallest of things. you know this is true, we women can't let anything go. talk to him and see what he was thinking, i'm sure he didn't mean to hurt you, but mern don't know how to say these things unless we drag it out of them. good luck!

Answer 4

ask him why

Answer 5

Men are just insensitive sometimes and don't realize how much anniversaries and things like that matter to a woman.  That's all there is to it.  At least he remembered and offered to celebrate it on a different day.  Give him credit for that much.