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Question

Why are people so mean? I mean, in the front: they're nice, but in the back: they're not nice. In the front, they talk nice. In the back, they talk bad about others behind people's back. Why on earth is that? TELL ME NOW! Cause I hate it when people are like that. I'm not like that at all.

Answer 1

tell them you are aware of there two faced ways.

dont worry! they can take it.. in the front and in the back LOL

Answer 2

Because no one likes the truth and if everyone said what they really thought; people would be devastated.

Everyone claims that the truth will set you free, but who really enforces there fantasies in to reality?

I would say few have called me rude, cruel, out spoken, crazy, vulgar, obnoxious, so on and so forth and all due to the honesty that drizzles from my mouth. No, I am not saying that I am the most honest person on earth; in fact, I’ve become the greatest liar I could ever imagine, picture this; having to bite my tongue just not to hurt people’s feelings thru honesty.

This is not people pleasing though. What is consideration?

Answer 3

It's just human nature. We make fun of other people because it makes us feel more powerful. Not everyone is like that but most people are.  

Answer 4

Its called two-faced.  Meaning hypocrytical and deceiptful.  Somehow it makes them feel good about themselves by putting others down - they're insecure and think that if they reveal their true opinions, they wont be liked - so they agree with - or conceal from - whomever they are face to face with.

Answer 5

those are the kind of people that are two faced you have to get to know people without telling them all your secrets and when you know the time is right you can then start to share minor things about your life if one of your private stories comes back one day and you only told this to a certain person then you know who it is but if your a bad judge of character then you re in trouble i can usually tell when i meet someone if i can trust them of not i thing is if someone doesn't look me in the eyes they have something to hide or if they talk too much about everything they have and how expensive it is then there full of sh*t etc etc  

Answer 6

I got tired of my ex family doing that to me and it upset me for long time but I got over and now I feed them information about my life because if that excites them to have something to gossip about then its whatever. I now find it amusing.lol